"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pulling blondes,harder to do?

Tazman

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I think it's for the same reason that people find blue/green eyes to be "more" attractive then brown. Brown hair and eyes are VERY common among many ethnicities. If blond hair were a common trait it wouldn't be so sought after. Not to mention the fact that it's a trait that is only natural for caucasian women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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themanwithnoname

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rarely have i ever met a blonde woman who is not outgoing, sassy, giggly, some men out there find that attractive, i get annoyed by them, who cares.
 

whistler

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Limiting beliefs and improper generalizing aside.....


I've only ever met ONE smart blond.

And dear God, is that a treasure to behold.
 

Luveno

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In my personal experience, natural blondes are no more or less difficult to pick up than natural brunettes to pick up at a club.

The one's that are harder to 'pull' are the bottle blondes - you know, the Paris Hilton wannabes. They originally had brown hair but dyed it blonde, and got a really bad tan, as a way to seek attention and gain things like money. Those girls are usually typical AWs and aren't worth anyone's time even looking at.
 

Ricky

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Exactly.

Those sorry fake tan blondes don't even turn me on anymore. It's like I have a natural aversion to them.

Then again I go for the girl next door look now way more than the girl that thinks shes "hot"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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