Pulling a disappearing act before you set up the first date=bad idea.

[Tha Realnezz]

Most women will take this as sign of you not being really attracted to her or as a game.

Some will simply ignore you the next time you see her after a few days without asking her out.

Example:You meet a girl on monday.Get the number on wed. but don't call or see her again till the tuesday after that?

There's a good chance of her giving you the cold shoulder especially if she has another suitor or a boyfreind on the low.You're just giving her time to qualify and rate you against other men and these are men she probably already went out with,so there's history there.

You're better off waiting no more than 2 days before you set up a date.

Let's stop underestimating a woman's emotional needs,SS.

 

[Scought]

There are no rules.

If the woman is interested, she is interested.

Rationalizing why a woman does or does not call back, has nothing to do with how long you wait, but rather her initial thoughts towards you.

If she really dug you, she'd find a way to call back.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

I'm not saying that.You guys don't read thread posts all the way through.

I'm saying that if you meet Becky and you leave with the number BUT you don't call her to set up a date within in a few days,chances are by the next time you see her she's gonna be in sour mood.

And you have to anylyze what women want cuz they are the ones that chose to be with you.You can't just kept nexting them cuz there might be something wrong in your game.

You can next a whole year away realsitcally speaking and not find one girl that can meet your 'standards'(demands,really).

You have to adjust enough to be the man women want and are attracted to get laid and have women after you.

 

[Scought]

Dude, what are you talking about?

You mentioned that you SHOULDN'T wait more than 2 days to call. That is what I was replying to in your post. Now you are going off about analyzing what women want.

I don't care what women want. I call them when I feel compelled to, and either they are interested and call back, or they are not interested in call back. If I am not in the mood/condition to call her and ask for a date, I wait til I am. I don't care what their feelings are about, or if they are 'sour' about it. I can't guess their moods and I refuse to think that much about a woman I briefly met.

Who said anything about nexting, by the way?

This whole, 'shoud I wait this long, or that long' deabte is tiresome. You call when you want to. You are not obligated to call her at all, even.

Obviously, calling while she can remember how great you are is ideal.

 

[Bonhomme]

My experience bck up what Realnezz is saying.

Particularly for guys whose physical game is their strong suit. Get back with her before the vibe wears off too much. Strike when the iron is hot.

 

[isoman2kx]

agreed, yeah you can try and be the macho guy and say "I call whenever I feel like it"

but odds are, if you wait more than 2 days, good luck with all the work that'll go into creating that good vibe again.

 

[Jay Jay]

theres a girl i number closed 3 weeks ago. i haven't called her yet.

i still plan to chase her. i'll let ya's know how it goes... when i get around to her...

JJ