"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

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pullin a girl whiles shes working?

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Hello, im brand new to this forum. this forum is awesome!:rockon: i ve been searching and couldnt find ne thing about my specific question. im sure there are plenty of girls at work threads.
So theres this girl that works at a drive thru place, ive seen her and talked to her before, but its seems to always be busy when i go thru. and seem to not have enough time to ask her for her number. plus her coworkers are there and i dont wanna put her on the spot ya know? so ne advice... thanks
 

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I've banged girls from work before, 1 was married. Heck, I even nailed one in the sick room at work once (see my threads).

But dude, its a freakin' drive through.

Subconsciously (although you may deny it, it's true) you are focusing on a situation like this to avoid meeting women in situations where you have a much better pay off (but also have to face near certain rejection).

You are using it as a buffer. Stop it!
 
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Well, this is a logistic issue. If you only have a minimal time window to converse with her (while ordering your food with her co-workers around), next time you pay, slip her a note with your number. Tell her to call you. Simple.
 
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Allurre said:
Well, this is a logistic issue. If you only have a minimal time window to converse with her (while ordering your food with her co-workers around), next time you pay, slip her a note with your number. Tell her to call you. Simple.
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I agree. At the drive-through, the headsets are sometimes wired together so her manager can hear everything. So if you can do this non-verbally, it's better and more discreet for her.

Notwithstanding, I agree with Runner that is not the best place to try to pick up at.
 
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Anything is possible, and giving her your number is a good option.

Except if shes hot or cute, chances are a variety of guys have tried this before...

So how you gonna make yourself stand out from the crowd? do you order food in an unforgettable way? do you wear amazing clothes? do you ask her silly questions, such as "Has anyone ever sung an order to your before?"

You need to stand out in her mind, get her interested, then slip her your number.
 

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when i worked at mcdonalds as a teenager I worked back drive through pretty much exclusivly i was the only one who wanted to do it.. for reasons I won't get into in this thread lol.

with that said.. i never had to go out to find a date. all my dates came from work. I ended up dating this chick named deseree, mexican, smoking hot, passed me her number while paying me. actually grew up 2 blocks from me and was 2 years younger than me and had a crush on me. needless to say she grew into her body. and I was an AFC back then.

drive thoughs are a gold mine.
 
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