Ok so i'm pretty scared because my girl is a week late on her period. She hasn't been on birth control because i guess she cycles it because her period cycle got screwed up or something i don't really understand. But we always use a condom. However, the thing that scares me is twice when i fvcked her i pulled out to find that the condom was still inside her. Does this happen a lot to other people? Once when it happened i pulled out and came on the floor, and the second time i came inside the condom which was in her, and when i pulled out it came off. But i did check the condom and i did come in the condom. I've read around the forum and she has been pretty stressed lately so i'm hoping that's the reason. I'm just scared cuz i don't really know about the whole cycling thing, and the fact that the condom came off inside her.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Pulled out but condom was still inside her?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Her cycle could be messed up again.
And how did you leave the condom in her...twice?
Anyway, sounds like a good heads up to putting her on birth control. Birth control is just as, if not more, effective as condom.
Otherwise, either start looking for a used baby crib or find a job in Canada.
And how did you leave the condom in her...twice?
Anyway, sounds like a good heads up to putting her on birth control. Birth control is just as, if not more, effective as condom.
Otherwise, either start looking for a used baby crib or find a job in Canada.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Chances are that SHE IS NOT pregnant from the particular incident you described. Yes, it has happened a few times to me, once after I pulled out after ejaculating, along with condoms breaking before I came and staying inside her.
She already took one, and it said she was not pregnant. I think if she doesn't have her period in a week i'll get her a couple more to take just in case. The morning after pill is definitely a good idea, unfortunately it doesn't help if she is already pregnant, which is what i'm freakimg out about.Levex said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Unless any of your sperm leaked out and got into her, then I wouldn't stress too much about it. Hasn't happened to me, but I've heard of some stories of some guys that had something like that happen to them and it was ok. Just relax and think positive.
If she is however; don't panic and remember that you have options. (I will not mention any of them publicly to avoid a belief war)
If she is however; don't panic and remember that you have options. (I will not mention any of them publicly to avoid a belief war)
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
She's not preggo, no worries.
I know it's scary, but a baby is not the end of the world.
When I was in hs, a 4-letter bmoc jock guy knocked up the head cheerleader. She was 15; he was 16. That girl is a hb11 on a 10 scale, just amazing to look at. Now he's an accountant, they live in a giant house on a lake, and I saw them and their kids not long ago. She is still a hb11, and they looked genuinely happy. Plus, they will be done with raising kids before they hit 40 - it's like early retirement. Everyone thought their lives were over and they were condemned to some impoverished trailer-park existence. Knocking your girl up is not the end of the world. Take precautions, but after that don't stress about it.
I know it's scary, but a baby is not the end of the world.
When I was in hs, a 4-letter bmoc jock guy knocked up the head cheerleader. She was 15; he was 16. That girl is a hb11 on a 10 scale, just amazing to look at. Now he's an accountant, they live in a giant house on a lake, and I saw them and their kids not long ago. She is still a hb11, and they looked genuinely happy. Plus, they will be done with raising kids before they hit 40 - it's like early retirement. Everyone thought their lives were over and they were condemned to some impoverished trailer-park existence. Knocking your girl up is not the end of the world. Take precautions, but after that don't stress about it.
That's all well and good but... What if she takes the kid, half your money and you have to pay child support. That's a pretty big thing to stress about!Bible_Belt said:
And what if you're doing a paper bag job! Not everyone can get quality all the time. You will be stuck with that!
I like reading all your posts BB but this is your only opinion I strongly disagree with. I think your biology is causing you to want a baby at this age.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Truth be told, I actually already have one, a 3-month old - not mine, though. If you have a woman around who does all the work, a baby is no big deal. I am never touching a diaper or getting up with a crying kid, and she is fine with that.
I don't deny that it is a perspective of age. I was scared of kids when I was 20. But by now, most of my friends have kids....and I don't know of a single baby that was planned. Babies happen. But every father I know also loves their kid and would not have it any other way. Like I said, use protection and be smart, but don't stress like life is over if she gets preggo.
Also, to the OP,
She hasn't been on birth control because i guess she cycles it because her period cycle got screwed up or something i don't really understand.
If you are this worried about her getting pregnant, then she needs to be on some sort of birth control beyond just you using a condom. Go see a doctor together and get that worked out.
I don't deny that it is a perspective of age. I was scared of kids when I was 20. But by now, most of my friends have kids....and I don't know of a single baby that was planned. Babies happen. But every father I know also loves their kid and would not have it any other way. Like I said, use protection and be smart, but don't stress like life is over if she gets preggo.
Also, to the OP,
She hasn't been on birth control because i guess she cycles it because her period cycle got screwed up or something i don't really understand.
If you are this worried about her getting pregnant, then she needs to be on some sort of birth control beyond just you using a condom. Go see a doctor together and get that worked out.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
quit buing "magnums", they arn't for you :woo:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
meitenesrigas
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His biology? He is a man. I don't think most Americans realize that it is the female who starts becoming less and less fertile when she hits 30. A man can reproduce until the day he drops dead.wolf116 said:
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Congrats.:cheer:Biggie said:She had her period today so i am no longer freaked. Damn it feels good to know she is definitely not pregnant
Ever onward
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Really dude, sounds like you need tighter condoms
Actually, I believe that in sex ed people are taught that after sex, you are supposed to hold on to the base of your penis (thus firmly gripping the condom as well) while pulling out. This is to prevent exactly this from happening, as condom and penis then go out together. Give it a try
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.