"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just an observation. I notcied I could do tons of pushups and situps for months and get strong but never really made a visual difference. 4 weeks ago I started doing a lot of pull ups/chin ups.
My abs are now starting to show as well as my chest starting to bulk up. I think its due to the fact that Im doing so many pull ups now. Has anyone noticed this? Im thinking that pull ups and chin ups are better than sit ups.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your sit up form was probably wrong...

Almost no one does sit-ups correctly anymore...

Plus when your doing Fitness tests specially for J/H and H/S. Speed is more important then form or length....

Your upper body should be like a board and you should just lift it with only your abbs... Shouldn't lung or throw your body up...

And try 3-sec up 3-sec down.... I see people doing tons of messed up speed crunches and saying how strong they are... but when they do real situps and crunches they can only do a handful...

Another fun thing to do is handstand pushups.. .
 

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
Your sit up form was probably wrong...

Almost no one does sit-ups correctly anymore...

Plus when your doing Fitness tests specially for J/H and H/S. Speed is more important then form or length....

Your upper body should be like a board and you should just lift it with only your abbs... Shouldn't lung or throw your body up...

And try 3-sec up 3-sec down.... I see people doing tons of messed up speed crunches and saying how strong they are... but when they do real situps and crunches they can only do a handful...

Another fun thing to do is handstand pushups.. .
interesting you say that about JH and HS. I was thinking to myself " but they use to always make us go so fast, maybe they were on to something"

Guess I was wrong and so were they
Thanks for the tip
 

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Pullups are a lot harder than crunches and even pushups. Besides, pullups is a fuller upper body workout using your lats, shoulders, biceps, forarms, abs and I'm sure some other muscles as well. You can do a ton of situps but you won't see abs till you burn some of the fat off of the waist area. If you want to see results, you're going to have to start adding weights. When you did pushups, you only use a certain percentage of your body weight. Sure you can do more the next week or the next day, but you aren't really overloading your muscle. You are merely fatiguing it.

Join a gym, learn to use the freeweights. You'll get plenty of results in a shorter amount of time. Just pushups and situps won't get you very far visually. You need to get into a gym and find a routine that works for you.
 

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I think doing head-stand pushups is much harder then any weights i've done.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah I know what you mean about those headstand push ups. I just cant get my neck to extend lie a giraffe! whats with that?! :p

Handstand pushups are gooooood. It helped a lot with all overhead movements.

Sing it with me:

You cant spot reduce fat to make abs!

If you want an explanation as to why, I'm sure someone here would be willing to shoot you for me.
 
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