Pull The Plug Now, And Begin

[Bratt2230]

Seriously guys!!

Recently i realized how lausy some of you guys are! I hear some dudes mention that hey had been reading this DJ stuff for 1-2 YEARS!!! without embracing it?? .. why the F* are you wasting your time in here if you are not going to use it!

Not to boast myself, because i am still NOT good enought IMO, but i discoverd this stuff 3 month ago, i NEVER thought that there were actually "bulletproff" systems to get girls, to build attraction, i was a "NICE GUY" FOR REAL, and i actually believed that some day, some handsome girl would notice how sweat i was, and just come to me .. this is NOT going to happen (perhaps one in a million times)!

GUYS!! ... GO OUT THERE!! I was terrified over Daygame, and i had NEVER been to a club before, i had to take the plunge AND IT WAS NOT EASY! but you know what? the "frightness" i experienced was NOTHING, you know why? Since discovering this stuff (3 months) until today, i have kissed just as many girls as i have done in my whole life time .. NO BULLSHVTT!! .. And ive Laid a Few too ( I MUST work on my Day 2's )

I WILL ELABORATE ON THIS, I WILL MAKE ANOTHER POST THAT I HOPE WILL BE INSPIRIRING FOR YOU GUYS, because i am becoming sick of some of you - some of you disgust me!!

Stop wasting your time! For everytime you read ONE POST/PAGE/TOPIC on sosuave or in a PUA/DJ book you MUST approach one woman and try applying the stuff you have read/Learned!

I am yet to read the whole DJ bible (Perhaps this is why i still have problems with my days 2's and ONS) but i am damn sure that i am alredy doing much better than a lot of you guys who has been reading the whole DJ bible for your 10th time.. AND YOU KNOW WHY ?? No i am not handsome, i even tend to have acne .. BUT I AM TRYING! I AM USING THE STUFF THAT I LEARNED!!! I AM TRYING!! TRY TRY TRY!!

JUST reading will not bring you ANYWERE!! .. You must embrace and use the stuff you learn! you must get into the field, you must sarge and meet women!!

THIS IS YOUR TIME GUYS!! .. Do not wait for next week, do not wait until this sunday/saturday! DO IT THE FIRST THING IN THE MORNING, JUST SAY "HI" to some random chick, just approach, it is a wonderfull felling just saying hi to a random girl, if you are not used to it! PLEASE GUYS!!
DO IT FOR ME, DO IT FOR THE OTHER GUYS ON SOSUAVE, BUT MOST IMPORTANT!!! DO IT FOR YOURSELF!!!!

NOW GET OUT THERE!!!

 

[GameOfNoGame]

Wow I could be kissing girls? Maybe they'll let me hold their hand at the lunch table too. lol nah I hear ya and thanks for the positive message but just like anything I take what I consider the wheat from the chaff. Most of the stuff here should never be used IMO but there are some good tips if you read enough. But I go out and am doing okay on my own, I've got 4 "plates spinning" right now. I came here because of one that's been extraordinarily difficult but I really want.

 

[Nygard]

Mr Petari, seriously man!
1 or 2 years? That's nothing. I've been reading and having false starts since I was 17, five years ago! Some people will never ever learn this skill, specially those who have had their self-esteem shot repeatedly by different people over the course of their life. There's some study that shows that when someone is abused by circumstances repeatedly without any hope of relief or escape, later on, when they can do something to save themselves, they won't ever take the chance. People should learn to know their limitations. NOT EVERYONE HAS POTENTIAL. NOT EVERYONE can become a "MAster DJ" or whatever you want to call them. I'd love to have untapped potential in every skill that exists ( I'd love to have potential as a hockey player but I suck) but that is JUST NOT POSSIBLE.

 

[Warrior74]

Mr Petari, seriously man!
1 or 2 years? That's nothing. I've been reading and having false starts since I was 17, five years ago! Some people will never ever learn this skill, specially those who have had their self-esteem shot repeatedly by different people over the course of their life. There's some study that shows that when someone is abused by circumstances repeatedly without any hope of relief or escape, later on, when they can do something to save themselves, they won't ever take the chance. People should learn to know their limitations. NOT EVERYONE HAS POTENTIAL. NOT EVERYONE can become a "MAster DJ" or whatever you want to call them. I'd love to have untapped potential in every skill that exists ( I'd love to have potential as a hockey player but I suck) but that is JUST NOT POSSIBLE.

There is no such thing as false starts. I've started 4 businesses. I'm on my fifth. Every time I learn from my mistakes and sometimes I make new ones. But I'm not giving up until I have a full time business and I am financially stable. If that takes my whole damn life so be it. If other people can do it, so can I. I've seen people dumber than me do way better than me, some by circumstance, some by perseverance and I've seen people way talented than me fail repeatedly, give up, and drown themselves in drink/drugs. Its up to you. You are in control. Giving up is not an option for me. It shouldn't be for you.

Decide you want it. Understand you will have failure. Learn from them. Keep going. This is life.

 

[Nygard]

Don't bring me the so tired speech. I told myself such things repeatedly some years ago and it went nowhere. It's just insanity doing something once and again expecting the results to be different. Newsflash for me, they never were and won't be if I ever try again. If it ever gets you somewhere, may you be happy with it. Thanks for the concern and kind words but I believe the ship has sailed.

 

[Warrior74]

So you are telling me at age 22 you give up on meeting and dating women? Is that what you are saying? Really?

What have you done? And yes doing the same thing over and over and expecting the same results is insanity. If one thing isn't working, change up.

I was selling my video service in the local market. The local market shifted and dried up, I'm selling my services now online all over the world. Some times you have to change your market to sell your product. (Actually I realized that I have to have multiple markets for a steady stream of income but I digress). The point is, analyze whats not working and try something esle. You can't do that? Or you won't?

 

[Nygard]

Yes, pretty much. I've gone exactly one year off the gene pool. I've had enough time to analyze what's wrong and I know what it is and where it comes from. Now, I don't know how to fix it, therapists don't know how to fix it, surely sosuave doesn't either nor does Roissy or Tyler Durden and his products or anything I've seen so far. Have I tried to take steps? Hell yeah. Did I try changing my approach? always. Did I try to solve the huge underlaying problem? Bet your beer money I did. The best of cases I made small strides only to regress again. I do have better stuff to work on, things that DO progress instead of regress constantly.

 

[Warrior74]

Yes, pretty much. I've gone exactly one year off the gene pool. I've had enough time to analyze what's wrong and I know what it is and where it comes from. Now, I don't know how to fix it, therapists don't know how to fix it, surely sosuave doesn't either nor does Roissy or Tyler Durden and his products or anything I've seen so far. Have I tried to take steps? Hell yeah. Did I try changing my approach? always. Did I try to solve the huge underlaying problem? Bet your beer money I did. The best of cases I made small strides only to regress again. I do have better stuff to work on, things that DO progress instead of regress constantly.

Well then, you sound like an outlier and not the norm I'm sorry to say. Your post doesn't reflect the majority of men who visit this site in my opinion, which is why I commented on it. Good luck and I hope you get to the root of your problem and sort it out.