Pull a Reversal

[JakeT85]

Been friends with this girl for over a year. Ask her to see what could be. She says that's she's down to see what could happen. We go on a few dates and I'm gonna admit I didn't read this site yet or have any idea what I was doing.....didn't make a move, roommate told me thought she was a virgin and totally threw me off and friends were always around us after our first date the next two had my roommate when she was at my place adn her friend and the last one had her roommate and she didn't seem like the type to do PDA. She moved me back into the friends zone. I did it all; texted daily (not all day but a few back and forth a day), sent messages saying how much I liked her, didn't make a move) every mistake I could have made I did. She still contacts me but since she laid out the LJBF I have not been giving her attention even though we were friends for a year prior to us trying it. Should I still not give her attention? Truth is after getting educated through this site on what I should be doing I want another go at her and the fact that she still is texting me off and on says that it wasn't a fake request for friendship and we were before. Is there a way to reverse this situation? Get her to see me as a guy she's interested in again instead of a guy that's chasing her wayy too much and one doomed to the friend zone? How do I pull a reversal like that? She was interested in venturing out of the box before I just want to show her to again; but have a feeling it won't happen just by telling her to. I can get it right now and drive her crazy chasing me I just dont' know how to get back to that point. Any pointers? I know I may have a little oneitis for this girl; I'm still talking to others too but something clicked with her I don't know. I think I was killed by not making a move in enough time..........or by chasing too much or both. Confused on how to get back in the interested zone with her. Any pointers on how I should handle her texting as far as ignoring or talking but starting to be more and more flirtatious and just act like i'm not fazed? Thanks guys

 

[Chickfight]

It's over dude, even if you knew all this stuff the first time around, it would've been very improbable to go from friends to more than that. Now it's impossible.

The only way would be to cut her out of your life completely for a few years until she forgets you and come back a completely new and improved (and preferably rich) person. By the time you'll have achieved this, you'll have moved on anyway bro.

 

[badboyjmm]

It's over dude, even if you knew all this stuff the first time around, it would've been very improbable to go from friends to more than that. Now it's impossible.

The only way would be to cut her out of your life completely for a few years until she forgets you and come back a completely new and improved (and preferably rich) person. By the time you'll have achieved this, you'll have moved on anyway bro.

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THIS !!

Let me break it down to you man, you have one-itis, simply because you think you have something with this girl. You are right you have something... Friendship. THAT'S ALL. The rest is just in your mind thinking she's perfect and all that... If she really want it to date you, you wouldn't be in the friend zone

Another thing too, you've allowed yourself to be in the friend zone by not making moves (i.e: ask her out) Change that, if you want something go for it, no need to hang around the bushes, she knows DAMN well what you want.

It's been said before but let me repeat: NO GIRL MAKING YOU WAIT TO DATE, and TO FVCK IS WORTH IT MAN. IT'S NEVER WORTH IT. So with that in mind MOVE ON ASAP, keep her as a friend, but don't initiate contact and check out some other girls.

P.S: If she has any interest at that point, she'll come back but don't count on it.