skinnydart
Master Don Juan
Pugs and his 100 approach journal, a case in point.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Pug's 100 approach journal
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
i think he's pro man. Repetition becomes habit, habit becomes natural
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
I think only 1 person can help solve this mystery....
Are you out there Pugs???
Are you out there Pugs???
Dublinsfinest
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"are you single"Originally posted by skinnydart
Pugs and his 100 approach journal, a case in point.
"are you single"
"are you single"
"are you single"
"are you single"
Not hard to get that. That approcah is for people with no game.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TillTheEndOfTime
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All you guys arguing that Pugs' method was bad for this reason or that reason are complete morons. If you had even BOTHERED to read some of the posts by Pugs you would have realized that Pugs was only trying this "method" to GET OVER HIS INITIAL FEAR and become more confident when approaching women. He was not claiming that this is a good "proven" method. He just happened to get lucky with one approach and score a woman he ended up liking. Whether they are still together or not now is irrelevant. The point is he did these approaches to get over his fear and become more confident. If the relationship ends he still comes out a new and better man for getting over his fear.
All of you self-righteous losers who say things like "he has no game" are just insecure. You thrive on putting other people down to feel better about yourselves. Grow up.
All of you self-righteous losers who say things like "he has no game" are just insecure. You thrive on putting other people down to feel better about yourselves. Grow up.
Ever onward
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But that's just it, Pugs DIDN"T conquer his fear. He approached a few girls, and one of them apparently said yes. That was on like page 3 of this journal. Then it turned into page after page of oneites crap and people who worship pugs just cuz he had balls enough to approach a few girls.
It's over. Let it die. Someone close this thread.
It's over. Let it die. Someone close this thread.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
^^ so what? He found what he wanted. Let it be.
You know, he might be more focused on pleasuring his chick and having great sex than updating a thread on an Internet Forum.Originally posted by Jayer
I think only 1 person can help solve this mystery....
Are you out there Pugs???
He's posted all we need to read. He owes us nothing. I thank Pugs for starting this thread in the first place.
If you had a woman in your bed would you be updating this thread or cuddling with your girl? I think most people would have forgotten about their threads if they started one and gotten what they wanted.
Pugs 100 approach journal is very good learning material.
alphawolfx
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i'm happy for pugs actually
although I personally don't like someone like Pugs, partly because i see my old self in him.
but whatever, he's happy for the time being. i don't think this was good learning material however.
but hopefully this will motivate you guys to actually go out there and f.uckin approach women instead of theorising about what's the best approach before you actually do that
you know what... i hope half the guys here never get off their a.sses and do a single approach in their life, and then somehow meet someone and through a friend and get married to her
that way i can have more women for myself.
although I personally don't like someone like Pugs, partly because i see my old self in him.
but whatever, he's happy for the time being. i don't think this was good learning material however.
but hopefully this will motivate you guys to actually go out there and f.uckin approach women instead of theorising about what's the best approach before you actually do that
you know what... i hope half the guys here never get off their a.sses and do a single approach in their life, and then somehow meet someone and through a friend and get married to her
that way i can have more women for myself.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
I think the fact that Pugs approached girls and reported real life experience beats most of the theories I've seen people post.
We should have an approach forum in my opinion. Thats the only way for us to practice our game.
We should have an approach forum in my opinion. Thats the only way for us to practice our game.
Pettycoat Junction
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Heck yes, thats a great idea. Who do we talk to about doing that?Originally posted by Jayer
We should have an approach forum in my opinion. Thats the only way for us to practice our game.
Where was Pugs located, anyone know? I assumed the U.S. but some of the words he used sounded british. Jayer your idea sounds good, but a lot of us have approached and realized that approaching alone isn't enough. Only a certain type of approach seems to work so that why all the theory abounds.
He said his goal was to make 100 approaches. We're supposed to believe that he followed women around in bookstores, some of them were receptive, he went on a date with one of them, immediately started thinking about marriage and just disappeared from the board altogether?
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Caldus
Senior Don Juan
I agree, an approach forum should be started.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
A forum soley based on approaches would be a very good instant awnser guide IMHO.
You know I didnt think of it until Jordan23 mentioned it, but for all we know Pugs could of either made up or embellished the parts about the girl he met. I don't think he made it up, but I think he embelished it if not intentionally unintentionally. We never seen this girl and we dont know how it worked out, so that kind of tarnishes the quality of the thread since Pugs never posted her pic or updated us.
Think about it. He goes up to a Keira Knightley/Winona Ryder looking chick and asks her if she's single. They exchange numbers and she calls him days after the fact. He gets all serious on the first date and she likes it?
I have a hard time buying it, unless he was exaggerating about her like you said.
I have a hard time buying it, unless he was exaggerating about her like you said.
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awesome pug
pug you are my hero i love you men.
before you had post this journal i was approaching girls........
well after 4 approach and 5 msg from internet... i dated 2 girls (1 from approach and 1 from internet) and the last one i dated... thought I have connection or my expectation was so high for her. so I stop my approach for awhile. however, she flakes on me. I was kind of depress for a while and after reading this i totally forgot about her. cant wait to incorporate this into the field.
well i do got a lot of eye contacts from some girls. but i never approach them because i was thinking of that b*tch who flakes on me. stupid of me.
I like your journal. my confident is up again and would begin to approach again.
all of this convo and tips are awesome.
i am not done reading the whole pug chapter but i have bookmark it lol hahha/ ......
thanks men
pug you are my hero i love you men.
before you had post this journal i was approaching girls........
well after 4 approach and 5 msg from internet... i dated 2 girls (1 from approach and 1 from internet) and the last one i dated... thought I have connection or my expectation was so high for her. so I stop my approach for awhile. however, she flakes on me. I was kind of depress for a while and after reading this i totally forgot about her. cant wait to incorporate this into the field.
well i do got a lot of eye contacts from some girls. but i never approach them because i was thinking of that b*tch who flakes on me. stupid of me.
I like your journal. my confident is up again and would begin to approach again.
all of this convo and tips are awesome.
i am not done reading the whole pug chapter but i have bookmark it lol hahha/ ......
thanks men
duke007
Master Don Juan
The thing I don't get is why people made such a huge deal over Pug's journal?? Sure he put his balls on the line and made the effort but there have been plenty more journals written with a LOT more quality material in them.
The following journals deserve more attention than they actually get:
Duke Progress Journal - Duke
Logbook of an Aspiring Casanova - Krassus
Daily Journal for Cold Approaches - jwhite17
Boot Camp Journal - Walden
77 approaches and several shame attacks in 2 weeks! - Guitar Whizz
There are others, just cant remember off the top of my head. Is there something I'm missing with the Pug's worshipping?
The following journals deserve more attention than they actually get:
Duke Progress Journal - Duke
Logbook of an Aspiring Casanova - Krassus
Daily Journal for Cold Approaches - jwhite17
Boot Camp Journal - Walden
77 approaches and several shame attacks in 2 weeks! - Guitar Whizz
There are others, just cant remember off the top of my head. Is there something I'm missing with the Pug's worshipping?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.