"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PuertoRican_Lover: "The Natural Order of Things"

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The natural order of things - Sexuality defined and explained!

There are many issues that are so very right yet so very wrong with this "essay." I hope I can cover most of the problems, and I wish I had taken notes.

Alright, for one thing you need to understand who I am. My real name is Allen, and I’m your average educated man in his early twenties. I’ve almost earned my bachelor’s degree and I’m a Presbyterian conservative. I would guess that PuertoRican_Lover is close to the same, maybe slightly more schooled, and his religious views take the stance of a Latin (by his name) Catholic. Naturally you would assume that I’m labeling him as a super-conservative (as if you liberals thought there was a difference between us).

Something tells me that many of the men that described the article by PuertoRican_Lover as “brilliant” are possibly undereducated players in this current worldwide debate, or simply outliers in the median of the world of men. I am not in question on why PuertoRican_Lover was banned. His views are incredibly controversial.

Positive notes: Over half of PuertoRican_Lover’s article was a repeat of my freshman biology class with some basic sociology, and maybe even a few inserts from the innovative mind of Sigmund Froid. This was very refreshing as an opening for this “unknown” article I was about to read. My anticipation was for good reason, because PuertoRican_Lover began to argue what Pook and other well known names have taught us all so well. He so adequately expressed something that is more than a view to me, but my beliefs on life and the way things should be and will always be as long as we exist.

Critiques: The second half of the essay was preaching to say the least. Although he provided a lot of accurate information on feminists, homosexuals, and the “intentional distortion of sexuality,” his addition to the many theories of life was sadly too opinionated to be fact. I was incredibly excited because I had been referred to read this article, and I thought that just maybe when the section on feminists came up that I would have evidence, like his claims in the beginning promised, to shut these women up (that I also believe to be disrupting a balance). His “facts” are in fact NOT, for there are many unexplained variables in life. Yes, there is a natural order of things. No, we no not have sufficient evidence to figure out why there are homosexuals (there is no AMA proof that it is a disease or dysfunction) or why there is the spousal abuse that goes on in the Structural-Functionalist homes that we conservatives love so much, or why some men just can’t find their “magnetic attraction” to complete the process of duality.

In summary, the problem is perhaps not the feminist or homosexual (or woman, wtf), but perhaps it is our unnatural problem with overpopulation that isn’t really properly taken into account. There are much better articles than this to teach you about what a men is, what sexuality is, and how to better play your role in this world and existence. Don't waste your time- Pook will explain to you what a man is, but Gunwitch will maybe help you better take action after you've rediscovered your masculinity.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm PR_L, what exactly don't you understand? The only problem that DJs have with my essay is on the Homo issue? Is the world gone mad?
 

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I was hoping for a more intelligent response, so maybe I'd believe you didn't copy and paste a lot of that.

The homosexual comment was among others that were noteworthy; also, it was not the point of the critique.
 
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What is the crux of the matter?
 
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