"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Public needy behaviour

JohnyTheArrow

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I have seen quite many guys is doing random acts of intimacy in public like kissing gf on cheek, forhead or hugging.The girls never seem to truly enjoy as it as it appears as automatic behavior and by that it is not exciting. I also noticed guys do it often when I look at the couple like they would like to seal her 'she is mine'.

Years ago I would think, damn girl is lucky so loving bf, but now I see it as childish and silly.They dont behave like men but rather like little children who hug and kiss their mommy.The guys most probably think they are loving and caring but the girl most probably feels as being needy.

Now they wonder why their ***** get dry ? Because when they will finally be alone,he hugs and kiss her it wont turn her on because he did it many times today in automatic way.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I notice this too. I see it waaaaaay too much. It's like 'bro, do you know what you're doing?' I mean if she turns away when you wanna kiss her, don't they get the hint? I can just see it in her eyes that she hates it when he becomes such a simpering wimp, even if it's for her. Plus her stance and body language in general, I mean DUDE! You're an idiot for not noticing that!!!!!!

Not you but the wimps.

It just pains me to see that I wasn't too far from doing all of that a little while ago.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Atom Smasher

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Not only that, but the pawing and petting is ridiculous. I feel embarrassed for them.

Here's the picture: The woman hints at disapproval and the guy starts rubbing her arm and pawing at her, trying to appease her. I'm usually pretty non-reactive but that scene always makes me internally shudder.
 
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