"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Public needy behaviour

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I have seen quite many guys is doing random acts of intimacy in public like kissing gf on cheek, forhead or hugging.The girls never seem to truly enjoy as it as it appears as automatic behavior and by that it is not exciting. I also noticed guys do it often when I look at the couple like they would like to seal her 'she is mine'.

Years ago I would think, damn girl is lucky so loving bf, but now I see it as childish and silly.They dont behave like men but rather like little children who hug and kiss their mommy.The guys most probably think they are loving and caring but the girl most probably feels as being needy.

Now they wonder why their ***** get dry ? Because when they will finally be alone,he hugs and kiss her it wont turn her on because he did it many times today in automatic way.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I notice this too. I see it waaaaaay too much. It's like 'bro, do you know what you're doing?' I mean if she turns away when you wanna kiss her, don't they get the hint? I can just see it in her eyes that she hates it when he becomes such a simpering wimp, even if it's for her. Plus her stance and body language in general, I mean DUDE! You're an idiot for not noticing that!!!!!!

Not you but the wimps.

It just pains me to see that I wasn't too far from doing all of that a little while ago.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Atom Smasher

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Not only that, but the pawing and petting is ridiculous. I feel embarrassed for them.

Here's the picture: The woman hints at disapproval and the guy starts rubbing her arm and pawing at her, trying to appease her. I'm usually pretty non-reactive but that scene always makes me internally shudder.
 
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