"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jeremymichael

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Hi everyone

does anyone else feel frustrated by some of the pub scenes in england?. Some are great by others especially in town centres are full of loutish people including the girls. The other night I was in town and I felt like I was the only one in there who was not acting childish, being aggressive or loud. I think tv and media (radio and lads mags) has a lot to answer for, where are the good role models?. Why are people like that, I can't understand it?. I'm beginning to think we are a nation of insecure, childish people with mental problems.

What I am saying is that for me finding quality women in bars is very limited.
I know there has been mentioned in many posts but it does get me down. I
do find quiz nights good because you tend to find the more educated going out, do you have these in America?.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NickSCFC2000

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Depends which bars/clubs you go. The indie ones are pretty good cause there's alot of regulars and people know eachother, the girls are a great laugh too.

It's the dance/r&b clubs you should stick away from, the lads want to start on eachother and the girls are nothing but bimbos.
 
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