"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PUA's Don't Need Internet Sites

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If you were a real PUA you would be in the feild pulling the babes not posting on internet sites.
You are all keyboard jockeys in real terms even though many of you claim to fvck multiple gorgeous girls.
You all argue amongst yourselves about who the real players are though no real players would be visiting these sites.
It is the blind leading the blind you are all social rejects who cannot attract any gorgeous girls so you make up your own fantasy stories about it.
You need to get these fantasies out of your minds get away from your computers and get into the real feild.
No man who fvcks gorgeous girls in real life would be giving advice about this on an internet site.
All of these seduction gurus are scamming your money they teach psychology in reality all of which has been written by other experts in the feild over the centuries.
Most of the advice they give will work only if the right man is applying it to his interactions with the females.
Attracting the most attractive woman is about how you sell yourself it has nothing to do with a strategy or a technique.
If you present as a confident successful man most gorgeous girls will desire you if you present as a dawk no attractive lady will want anything to do with you in a sexual way no matter how great your game may be it won't work.
It isn't as complicated as you all think it is to seduce lots of gorgeous girls nor are you anything special if you can and are doing this.
Changing from the type of man who presents as a dawk to the type who presents as a confident DJ is a long process it does not happen overnight.
I beleive that change is possible though you cannot come accross as a social reject one day and the confident socialite the next it takes a long time.
Everyone who claims to be fvcking the cutest babes on these sites are egotists if they have either player or pimp in their name you can be certain that they are dreamers who are not in the feild.
Why these men want to deceive those even weaker than them in order to build up their own egos.
These types of dreamers and social rejects eventually explode in a similar way as the Virginia gunman did the other day.
You never fvck any gorgeous girls by writting about having done it on a site like this you only fvck them by meeting them in the feild.
Whilst you men are writting all of your fantasies on here other men are out in the feild fvcking the girls that you can never get yourselves.
It is too hard for you all to approach attractive woman in real life situations and very easy to write your false reports about it on these sites so that you can be praised by the other societal rejects who are posting on here.
You all perceive gorgeous girls as being unattainable to fvck one of them in real life is only a fantasy in your minds that you don't think can happen.
It can happen only if you meet the girls in the first place get off your computers you key board jockeys and talk to some real girls.
The most attractive woman spend most of their money on looking good buying clothes getting their hair styled and on cosmetics.
It is obvious that they want the men to be attracted to them you won't ever fvck any by posting on an internet site.
Dreaming about fvcking gorgeous girls is never going to make it happen you need to go into the feild to meet them before you can fvck them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You need to get these fantasies out of your minds get away from your computers and get into the real feild.
No man who fvcks gorgeous girls in real life would be giving advice about this on an internet site.
I smell a hypocrite.
 

Fred Da Head

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I smell someone with no language skills and a grudge because he's too ugly to actually get girls. :)
 

Play the Game

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Well some of us probably are, but others just enjoy discussing this stuff and getting better.
Anyways, i got class.. lets see how many HBs i can talk with today.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rakishness

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I find this site entertaining. Most of us do. Some of the things I read on here are just hilarious. Like your psycho rant. Pure comedy. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

NotaNewbie

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I smell someone with no language skills and a grudge because he's too ugly to actually get girls.
Woah! You my man have SKILLS! How does one smell something like that?
 

Nighthawk

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HaremMasterThomas said:
No man who fvcks gorgeous girls in real life would be giving advice about this on an internet site.
Why not?
 

Ratisson

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haremmaterthomas, first off i think a lot of guys on this site are just like me and are interested in the material. i come home from a long day of work/ school and when i get bored i'll come on this site because i actually enjoy reading about the topics. Stop trying to give everyone on this site a hard time. They are here to improve themselves.
As for ur other pointless post, i think that who u are is what u think u are. If u dont have the confidence, then u fake it. Faking confidence actually leads to being confident. Even though ur acting it, ur still producing it, therefore u are confident. U are what u think urself to be. U can go into a club and say to urself "im fvcking worthless" or u can go into a club and actually believe "i am the man". Those are two different mindsets, and the one u choose to truly believe in is the one that will be displayed.

Stop questioning a DJ's validity.
 

L777

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I've just realised you're probably the racist from the other day. Yea the same one who PM'd me cos you couldn't get laid. Lol...you should seriously go and GET LAID....you would be much more laid back and cool.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kwello

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Lots of people post while they're bored at work, on their free time, during lectures, you name it. People aren't just chasing titties all day... sometimes it's nice to exercise your brain a little.
 

Serialized3

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So what are you doing here then? Are you a lonely, loser keyboard jockey? Or if you are a "PUA" yourself, what are you doing on here?

Some of us know there's more to life than laying girls, I guess that's the shallow, hollow lives "PUAs" live. Slaves to the skirt.

Anyways, if you have nothing to contribute, you can feel free to fuck off.
 

sexxyback

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If you were a real PUA you would be in the feild pulling the babes not posting on internet sites.
You are all keyboard jockeys in real terms even though many of you claim to fvck multiple gorgeous girls.
You all argue amongst yourselves about who the real players are though no real players would be visiting these sites.
It is the blind leading the blind you are all social rejects who cannot attract any gorgeous girls so you make up your own fantasy stories about it.
You need to get these fantasies out of your minds get away from your computers and get into the real feild.
No man who fvcks gorgeous girls in real life would be giving advice about this on an internet site.
All of these seduction gurus are scamming your money they teach psychology in reality all of which has been written by other experts in the feild over the centuries.
Most of the advice they give will work only if the right man is applying it to his interactions with the females.
Attracting the most attractive woman is about how you sell yourself it has nothing to do with a strategy or a technique.
If you present as a confident successful man most gorgeous girls will desire you if you present as a dawk no attractive lady will want anything to do with you in a sexual way no matter how great your game may be it won't work.
It isn't as complicated as you all think it is to seduce lots of gorgeous girls nor are you anything special if you can and are doing this.
Changing from the type of man who presents as a dawk to the type who presents as a confident DJ is a long process it does not happen overnight.
I beleive that change is possible though you cannot come accross as a social reject one day and the confident socialite the next it takes a long time.
Everyone who claims to be fvcking the cutest babes on these sites are egotists if they have either player or pimp in their name you can be certain that they are dreamers who are not in the feild.
Why these men want to deceive those even weaker than them in order to build up their own egos.
These types of dreamers and social rejects eventually explode in a similar way as the Virginia gunman did the other day.
You never fvck any gorgeous girls by writting about having done it on a site like this you only fvck them by meeting them in the feild.
Whilst you men are writting all of your fantasies on here other men are out in the feild fvcking the girls that you can never get yourselves.
It is too hard for you all to approach attractive woman in real life situations and very easy to write your false reports about it on these sites so that you can be praised by the other societal rejects who are posting on here.
You all perceive gorgeous girls as being unattainable to fvck one of them in real life is only a fantasy in your minds that you don't think can happen.
It can happen only if you meet the girls in the first place get off your computers you key board jockeys and talk to some real girls.
The most attractive woman spend most of their money on looking good buying clothes getting their hair styled and on cosmetics.
It is obvious that they want the men to be attracted to them you won't ever fvck any by posting on an internet site.
Dreaming about fvcking gorgeous girls is never going to make it happen you need to go into the feild to meet them before you can fvck them.
 

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Example: Even top managers with exceptional managing skill go to conferences, seminars, meetings to discuss the best practices.

Point: No matter what you skill level is on a subject, if you are not up to date of the best practices you'll eventually get surpassed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Trance said:
Example: Even top managers with exceptional managing skill go to conferences, seminars, meetings to discuss the best practices.

Point: No matter what you skill level is on a subject, if you are not up to date of the best practices you'll eventually get surpassed.
Besides, why avoid a particular venue unless you weren't comfortable using it? With experience you should get better if you are capable of learning from your mistakes.
 
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Serialized3 said:
So what are you doing here then? Are you a lonely, loser keyboard jockey? Or if you are a "PUA" yourself, what are you doing on here?

Some of us know there's more to life than laying girls, I guess that's the shallow, hollow lives "PUAs" live. Slaves to the skirt.

Anyways, if you have nothing to contribute, you can feel free to fuck off.
At this time I am spending the majority of my spare time surfing the web in a sence I could call myself a key board jockey which doesn't hurt me as far as my PUA skills are concerned I would call myself a counterfeit Don Juan as I have been forced to use psychology to fvck attractive woman I am not a natural I cannot successfully seduce every pretty girl that I desire though I don't place any gorgeous girls up on a pedestal I disguise myself as a Don Juan and if the lady I've approached falls for that I fvck her.
 
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Fred Da Head said:
I smell someone with no language skills and a grudge because he's too ugly to actually get girls. :)
I'm no hunk but I'm not ugly either I'm kind of in the middle looks don't matter to the gorgeous girls anyway faking Don Juanism is what its all about.
I have an Advanced Diploma In Business so my language skills cannot be too bad.
 

Lust

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HaremMasterThomas said:
I'm no hunk but I'm not ugly either I'm kind of in the middle looks don't matter to the gorgeous girls anyway faking Don Juanism is what its all about.
I have an Advanced Diploma In Business so my language skills cannot be too bad.
You're fvcking retarded, how's that?

What you had said was a mish mash post, trying to make a good point with really bad writing skills.

People come here to discuss and get better. You can't just say every one of us here is a Keyboard Jockey, who are you to judge? What makes you think that you deserve the right to decide who is a real PUA and who are Keyboard Jockeys?

You can't just generalize that all of this sh*t is fantasy. You think we fantasize about the painful road upwards? The rejections? Honestly, are you fvcking blind? Or just looking for attention or something?

Go jump the lake you loser, fvck you if you think you can judge me, or any of the others here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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