"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PUA vs Naturals

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In my experience, men who stress over the technicalities may end up successful, but now always happy. I prefer a natural game, bar none. I don't need to pickup a woman every night I go out to make myself happy. I can enjoy myself. If I'm feeling it on a particular night, I don't mind turning my game up a notch. But there's nothing I could see myself hating more than "studying" tactics and skills to hit on women. It's not a game, it's life. I treat it as so.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Imo...

A natural learned all the teachniques we learned on the community by themselves... Think about that.

We can practice them... But it's not the same. While they are almost born knowing them, we only get as good as them, if we practice the same they do.

A natural will know the techniques because he approached 100 women.

A PUA will know the techniques, but will only know how to use them to his advantage when he approaches 100 women. (Yep we first learn this on the net, but we have to practice to get good at it.)

Naturals know the game, but not the concept behind it.

PUA's know the concept behind it FIRST, and then they learn the game.

Pua: "Practice makes perfect."

Natural: "You don't need to practice... Just go out and be yourself."



Naturals are blinder then Pua's! They know the things, but not consciously!
 
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