"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

PUA videos = Garbage?

Duffdog

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2008
Messages
788
Reaction score
35
Location
norcal
I don't know how many people watch the mystery pick up field videos or any of the other vids on youtube that show field reports, but it seems like every single one of those are awkward. When I watch them, I get the feeling like mystery (or whomever is doing the PUA exercises) is just waiting to use a bunch of canned lines. It never seems like its a natural enjoyable thing. I had hoped that by watching some of those videos, there would be some additional things I would learn to help with conversation to learn about the girl. Unfortunately, its just the SAME CRAP over and over and over. Now, who actually thinks that spouting off a bunch of generalized junk is fun?

Am I missing something here? Sure--the PUA got the attention of a bunch of women and used all the appropriate lines, but how does that satisfy a person? It seems so incredibly unnatural and forced, like sure, it would "work" on a girl for the first night-- but then what? You can't use 'lines' for the rest of your life!

Also, I was wondering if guys actually go out and do this. Are there people who just try the same lines over and over on every girl until they find one that goes along with it? If no girls in one bar followed the script, do you then go to the next bar and do it all over again?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

COD

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
1,197
Reaction score
30
I think the permise is SOUND, meaning U gotta use a non-direct line to get your foot in the door, hold their interest, etc.

In the begining you should use canned lines then gravitate towards your own personalized openers. When you are great you could theoretically use any word and seduce women.

Saying just be natural is totally un-realistic, when U engage out of your comfort zone you often appear nervous, awkward, and yes canned/rehearshed. You are focusing on the actual words and not the results, to an outsider and for instructional purposes it would seem that this stuff doesn't work. The same lines is NOT TAUGHT be mystery whats so ever, he states to multiple thread, change openers all the time.

Videos are for entertainment and to allow people an upclose and personal viewing of how its done. Yes we should all be natural but that takes time. Startig out............canned lines work
 
Top