"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PUA VIDOES !!!!!
The link
Watch and learn.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=__gaWJfYWBk&search=PUA - part 1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKxNoUN7tVA&search=PUA - part 2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u2k_BegkfFs&search=PUA -part 3

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ihVmXsK1q4&search=Juggler - Juggler and Neil Strauss



You can learn from this.


UPDATE !!!

Style on The View
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M0omMTu9Ax8
( poor Style, Women attacking him anyway Stuff to learn from )

Neil Strauss on Richard and Judy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZhBdufcAc8&search=neil strauss pua
(Watch and learn)

Neil Strauss on Jimmy Kimmel Live
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=7955135786830905802&q=Neil+Strauss

Pick-Up Artists Featured on Primetime
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w_EuOeeRADs&search=neil strauss pua
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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repost but thanks anyway. Know any more videos?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"I hated every minute of training, but I said, ''Don't quit. Suffer now and live the rest of your life as a champion.'' Muhammad Ali
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dude, that is such a fvcking awesome quote! i am putting that on my wall!!!!
 

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Am I the only one sick of seeing these so-called PUA gurus on TV doing seminars, chat shows and book signings?

If they're everything they say they are and they're on air, let's see them picking up women for once!!

Seeing is believing and none of them have done anything to convince me they're any better than the average keyboard jockey.
 

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OK, does anybody else get the impression that Behr is the biggest f*cking wenie to ever walk the face of the earth? I wanted to smack that cheesy beard right off of his face. Why try to hold these guys back? What, so only the "cool" guys can get laid?
 

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Neil Strauss' gf may be hot and he may be an awesome pua or whatever, but his book "the game" is a simple, bad, and cheap imitation of books like the art of seduction or the 48 laws of power. Then it comes leather bound with golden edges just like a bible, like its the ****...i wanted my money back within the first 100 pages i read.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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undesputable said:
Neil Strauss' gf may be hot and he may be an awesome pua or whatever...

Neil is well spoken and has a background as a writer -- as well as a "rock 'N roll" background thus his introduction to his "live-in" guitar playing g/f - read "live-in hor"!!!!!!!!! I'm sure she sucked plenty of penis!! He is just the next pimp in line!! This is a failure story not a success story!!!
 

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Jariel said:
Am I the only one sick of seeing these so-called PUA gurus on TV doing seminars, chat shows and book signings?

If they're everything they say they are and they're on air, let's see them picking up women for once!!

Seeing is believing and none of them have done anything to convince me they're any better than the average keyboard jockey.
Well, they do in-field workshops too. Of course, that's for a price... But if Mystery's plans go through, then he'll soon have his own reality TV show. So maybe you won't have to wait much longer.
 

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undesputable said:
Neil Strauss' gf may be hot and he may be an awesome pua or whatever, but his book "the game" is a simple, bad, and cheap imitation of books like the art of seduction or the 48 laws of power. Then it comes leather bound with golden edges just like a bible, like its the ****...i wanted my money back within the first 100 pages i read.
WTF? Dude, "The Game" was nothing like those books. It was more of a story of one man and his journey. Of course, he learned lessons throughout the journey and he tries to teach them. But the focus of the book is on his personal development. Those other books are more like "how-to's." "The Game" certainly has some how-to elements to it, but it's a far cry from being the focus of the book.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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undesputable said:
Neil Strauss' gf may be hot and he may be an awesome pua or whatever, but his book "the game" is a simple, bad, and cheap imitation of books like the art of seduction or the 48 laws of power. Then it comes leather bound with golden edges just like a bible, like its the ****...i wanted my money back within the first 100 pages i read.
You are an idiot. These books are NOTHING alike. This would be like me saying that swimming is a poor imitation of basketball as a sport. Even the Art of Seduction is much much different. AofS is a treatise on great historical seducers and their methods. The Game is the story of a man who is learning pickup. The book doesn't even mention those historical seducers. My guess is that you haven't read any of them.
 

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ok so the art of seduction is about many seducers and their methods, and the game is about one man and his methods, actually the methods of many others as well, like mystery. fundamentally, however, the concept is the same and i was only suggesting or recommending to not waste your time reading books like the game, if you at least have a remote idea of what seduction or picking up is about. otherwise i guess is a good begginers book, but still by no means should it look like the bible...even the bible on this site is a much better read.
 

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I think The Art of Seduction and The 48 Laws of Power are two absolutely incredible books, and highly recomend them. The Game is also the 5h!t. It's an easy read, it's full of great stories, and it's got some valid points/tips/info, especially if yer just starting out.

And I fvcking hate that little English dude Rafael on the video clips. Total playa. Master pua. Spinnin' 15 plates at all times, hardest part of his day is deciding which of the HB10's in his stable he wants to get an afternoon three-way going with. That or he's the worlds most deluded, eloquent AFC. I dunno... he's like a shadow...one minute he's talking an you're trying to strangle your monitor, the next he's gone...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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