"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Packers2010

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i was thinking of doing something like this.

i use skype a lot. and i was thinking about starting a skype group. where people could talk in real time and we could get some discussions going.

if i get enough people with interest. i will open the group up and we can get going.

just shoot me a PM with your skype name so i can see who to add and how manny people we have in the group.


everyone is welcome. just don't be a troll and you should be ok.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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And to think it was once all about guys becoming gurus and offering classes for hundreds and thousands of dollars. We have now come full circle. Hey, nothing can be lost from this. Good idea.
 

Packers2010

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i was just bouncing ideas around. i mean. those guys KNOW what they are doing. this would a group of guy learning together.
 
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