I noticed that Embrace had a blog up of his progress, and I was wondering if any of you had any? I want to post links to them on my blog, so that users looking for those types of blogs can easily find a few. If you have one, post the link here and I'll add it to mine. Thanks!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I started mine shortly after hearing how easy it was to start one on blogger from Bourne back in April of this year. I've got a few sosuavers also linked on my DJ blog. It was my best tool when tracking my progress and staying motivated in the DJ bootcamp. I highly recommend it. I started with a heavy PUA/mASF influence, but now... I'm back on the path of a DJ.
Link in my sig below.
Link in my sig below.