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You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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I know "The Community" tends to be a little bit secretive, but I still think there could be a lot of value in a "PUA" magazine.

There isn't such a thing, is there?

I mean, really, as much as I love David DeAngelo, why should we all go around paying $500 for this info when women pay $5 for a Cosmo?

I know some people think that "all there is to say" would be filled in "a few issues."

I STRONGLY disagree. There are little things you could write about for years and years.

On the other hand I'm not sure what the result would be if there were a lot more attractive men out there.

It would certainly mean more competition for all of us. But then again, it might also mean that there are more hot women (if they realize they have to start losing weight, etc.)

I can't speculate what would actually happen. I'd imagine that applying some game theory (actual game theory, as in the kind invented by mathematicians not pickup artists) could predict what strategies would work in this case.

Anyway, just a thought to discuss.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alphathree

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Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
Nah. Something like this would never last in the mainstream of our society.
Yes, truth IS stranger than fiction, especially THIS truth. I think it would be controversial, but never last?

Perhaps pick up isn't the right word.

It would just be about understanding women and how to deal with them and generate attraction.

Most men are getting their ass kicked by feminism and they're too indoctrinated to even understand that they need help. I guess you're right... maybe it's hopeless.
 

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I rather not have every **** and harry know about this stuff. It would be that much harder for us.


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Re: Re: PUA magazine?

Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
I rather not have every **** and harry know about this stuff. It would be that much harder for us.
What makes you think that? I mean, take a look at how many people are on the forum, and how many people actually bother to do anything they read about here. I doubt the number escapes the single digits.

Anyway, if a PUA magazine is a good idea, someone somewhere will start one and either go broke or make a lot of money... or fall somewhere in the middle. Who knows, why doesn't the person who made the thread start one and let us know how it goes?
 

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Re: Re: Re: PUA magazine?

Originally posted by diablo
What makes you think that? I mean, take a look at how many people are on the forum, and how many people actually bother to do anything they read about here. I doubt the number escapes the single digits.

Anyway, if a PUA magazine is a good idea, someone somewhere will start one and either go broke or make a lot of money... or fall somewhere in the middle. Who knows, why doesn't the person who made the thread start one and let us know how it goes?
Diablo I respect you and your posts but how many people are there on this website lets say 1,000. How many guys in usa...millions. I bet hunderds of thousands of guys would be into this stuff...and chicks would know about it and laugh when u try anything. example: Ur in class and u try kino....everyone would be like HAHA Mikes usin KINO on Jenny. This is something that doesnt need to get publicized


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Have any of you ever read "Ask Men?"
While there is some trash in there, there is some DEFINITE worth there as well.
 

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I hate to say it, but most of this stuff is pretty obvious.

Attract girls by:

1. Getting in shape
2. Having a social personality
3. Being funny.
4. Being the Alpha

and so on. I think we all pretty much knew this stuff already. All we really talk about here are ways to bring these qualities out. A PUA magazine would probably be kinda dull to read with profiles on big time PUA, new techniques in seductions, and inspiring articles on how to be the Alpha. This forum is much better in that it promotes discussion of these ideas and eventual their evolution. I think for most individuals here, they just want to get to a certain level where dealing with women is not a chore but something enjoyable.
 

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Diablo I respect you and your posts but how many people are there on this website lets say 1,000. How many guys in usa...millions. I bet hunderds of thousands of guys would be into this stuff...and chicks would know about it and laugh when u try anything. example: Ur in class and u try kino....everyone would be like HAHA Mikes usin KINO on Jenny. This is something that doesnt need to get publicized

I am sorry my man but you have missed the train... The answer itself is in your post, check it out:

Me and Diablo and sleazy slut Gigaglo release a magazine called "How to mack attention *****s weekly.".

A guy walks up to a counter, looks over it, and goes "Wow, gay"

Most of the people would miss it, remember, ONLY THOSE PEOPLE WHO WERE DESPERATE ENOUGH FOR A CHANGE FOUND THIS SITE
People who think they are good with women, or dont need much help will pass this.


Now ok, let's say people DO get into this, now here is where your post comes in. Say EVERYBODY knew about this PUA and DJ stuff... so, just like you said, in the class Mike is touching Jenny. Jenny is attracted to Mike, so she touches him back. Everyone says "OMG THEY ARE KINOING!" ......... but, get this, Mike and Jenny dont give a flying Fukk, becuase they like each other. Sexuality beats everything, nature is our one and only king. Everyone could be preaching "SEX IS WRONG AND IMMORRAL" on every corner, but would you give a crap if you had hot women that liked to have sex? You wouldnt give a damn, my man, and that is why this idea will not be the end of the world.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: PUA magazine?

Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
but how many people are there on this website lets say 1,000
At last count, Don Juan Discussion Forum - Members: 17,333..

chicks would know about it and laugh when u try anything. example: Ur in class and u try kino....everyone would be like HAHA Mikes usin KINO on Jenny.
In an ideal world, kino comes naturally... I know that I didn't first try using it after reading a book - if all of the sudden someone puts out a magazine that's read by less than 1% of the population saying that cracking your knuckles is cool do you expect everyone who cracks their knuckles must have read that magazine and is trying to act cool? :p You're also making the assumption that the "millions of men" you speak of would actually purchase this magazine... indeed, that they could even find the magazine at their local newsstand. Do you have an idea of how many magazines there are out there currently?? Let's go through some examples - tell me if you read them or not.

Giant, KING, New Man, Razor, Sync, etc etc --- all pulled from the "Men's" section of magazines.com (which includes well-known titles such as Maxim, Stuff, FHM, etc.

Speaking of "Stuff" (which I get every month), if you turn to page 157 you'll find a section called "Be a Pickup Artist". It tells you places to go, things to do, and "how to pick up women". Does this mean every guy in America - or even a miniscule percentage of people who get this magazine - are going to just turn into Don Juans overnight? I doubt it.

Anyway, it's a moot issue unless someone actually makes the magazine and all of the guys in America suddenly become uber-DJ's.
 

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"PUA"

WTF is that!?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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