"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pua doesn't work if you got aids, cancer, handicapped and/or deformed

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You say get a better body, but what if you can't?
You say get a good hair style but what if you have receding hair?
What if you were born short?
What if it's not your problem you're broke?

Pua doesn't take into account other issues such as these. Pua is basically for guys with no body issues what so ever. This is why most users on this forum can't understand the true nature of women because you've never been on the low end in life. These low-end guys know 100% that women can't feel love like men can. These men realize it's we males that are the open minded gender.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Troll. IP logged.

Keep it up buddy. Banning you would be like removing cancer out of the forum.

Oh, and to reply to your post:

What if you stopped worrying about "what if" this or "what if" that, and focused on things that are within your sphere of influence?

I'll keep this one open for a while.
 

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Yep, troll, but I'll go ahead and feed it for future reference. Game is what you build when you are trying to make up for the fact you're broke or confined to a wheelchair, disfigured face or whatever "handicap" you have.

You build game and confidence to project the real you; the stable, mature, intelligent, funny, well-spoken you. Yes, some women will see you have some disability and not be interested; you'll have to get good at moving past these b!tches, they aren't worth your time anyway. A friend of mine is a handsome guy who with striking blue eyes, women stop him in the grocery store to compliment him, this guy doesn't need much game. Me on the other hand? I was an awkward nerd in high school, who has been rejected more times than I can count. Yep it hurts, but game helps me move past that, tighten up my skills, my appearance, how I carry myself and ultimately build confidence that radiates out.

OP you're a troll and we get it, but your post really highlights what the average AFC thinks, which is in fact the OPPOSITE of reality. Game is for those of us who don't have great wealth or striking good looks. Game is how AFC's become DJ's
 

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Von_S said:
Yep, troll, but I'll go ahead and feed it for future reference. Game is what you build when you are trying to make up for the fact you're broke or confined to a wheelchair, disfigured face or whatever "handicap" you have.

You build game and confidence to project the real you; the stable, mature, intelligent, funny, well-spoken you. Yes, some women will see you have some disability and not be interested; you'll have to get good at moving past these b!tches, they aren't worth your time anyway. A friend of mine is a handsome guy who with striking blue eyes, women stop him in the grocery store to compliment him, this guy doesn't need much game. Me on the other hand? I was an awkward nerd in high school, who has been rejected more times than I can count. Yep it hurts, but game helps me move past that, tighten up my skills, my appearance, how I carry myself and ultimately build confidence that radiates out.

OP you're a troll and we get it, but your post really highlights what the average AFC thinks, which is in fact the OPPOSITE of reality. Game is for those of us who don't have great wealth or striking good looks. Game is how AFC's become DJ's
^This.

When the gurus tell us that looks don't matter, it's all game, I think what we can infer from that (besides their profit motive) is that EXCEPTIONAL, ELITE-LEVEL game could, in theory, help an ugly pull some serious a$s.

However, most guys, including myself, do not have the time to become ELITE at the game. The good news is you don't have to. Developing a decent level of game is often enough to help compensate for many common shortcomings. Game helps you LEVERAGE what you DO have. I'm balding and have skin that is so so at best. But I'm lean and toned and have a decent looking face. I also have a pretty slick hairstyle that maximizes what I have on my head. Throw in some decent game, and I can cross the finish line sometimes. Don't get me wrong; it's still a lot of work. But it's better than getting nothing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Link said:
You say get a better body, but what if you can't?
You say get a good hair style but what if you have receding hair?
What if you were born short?
What if it's not your problem you're broke?

Pua doesn't take into account other issues such as these. Pua is basically for guys with no body issues what so ever. This is why most users on this forum can't understand the true nature of women because you've never been on the low end in life. These low-end guys know 100% that women can't feel love like men can. These men realize it's we males that are the open minded gender.
You do know the elephant man did have a girlfriend right?

Like the saying goes, "thou art no man if thou canst get a woman with thy tongue"
 
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Lots of truth to the post. Yeah, it won't sell books or tapes, but the honesty is there to help some of you. Best way to put it, to get a high caliber girl you need something more than witty one-liners or furry hats. You need power, money, or classic good looks.
 

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Stop being so friggin' negative and go get some poon
 

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He's right. I have Aspergers and to women am "Weird looking"...get laughed at by random UGs and fatties just for existing, let alone HBs.

While looks aren't everything, being negative to women in the looks department will ensure that you get no women whatsoever unless you "luck out" and an exception woman happens to think you're cute or interesting.
 

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Guys stop feeling bad for your selves and go out there and MAKE MONEY. Heck if I had some handicap affecting my ability to hookup with females I would get my cash game on right and tight. Go to school get a good job and just do it man. No money for school? get a computer job, you just have to buy/download books and learn the stuff for that no schooling necessary. Test answers at examcollection.com, WTF! Get good and you can even work from home making $150K annually. Hookup with some lil chubby nerdy chick and your set (heck im normal and i like chubby nerdy chicks!), I mean c'mon lets be realistic here. Life isnt easy for any of us but we can ALL definitely live a good life if we stop being pansys and try. If your sitting somewhere with internet and a computer like you are right now you can do it. And other people have done it with less.

One thing for sure coming to this site and being a Negative Nancy will get you nowhere but banned. Not only that but thinking like that is poison for your brain. Mulling over your insecurities and negative thoughts over and over again will drive anyone mad.


Fattest man in the world marries: (dude was engaged at over 1000 LBS!!! somebody was saying they looked a little funny on here? c'mon man!)
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/wor...t-man-to-get-married-after-losing-weight.html
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Link said:
You say get a better body, but what if you can't?
You say get a good hair style but what if you have receding hair?
What if you were born short?
What if it's not your problem you're broke?

Pua doesn't take into account other issues such as these. Pua is basically for guys with no body issues what so ever. This is why most users on this forum can't understand the true nature of women because you've never been on the low end in life. These low-end guys know 100% that women can't feel love like men can. These men realize it's we males that are the open minded gender.

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