"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i must be the only guy that thinks pua's are bull****ters, im watching you-tube and seeing all this amature videos, of so called hidden camera's and you can clealry see the women know they are being video no matter how the camera guy tries to hide it.

these women like the fact that the camera's are on them, and are showing of for the camera's.

i know im not the only guy that thinks hey i dont wana dumb my self down to pick-up some silly women.

have you heard thier conversations lately? these men force themselves to talk about crap they arnt even interested in. they talk about shopping and nonsesnse like that.

i have heard a guy talking about dikk-sizes and lenght in public just to make some silly-ass women laugh. is this what it has come to?

real men dont have the time for **** like that, and real-men are hard to come by anyway.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"If real men are hard to come by anyway" then u think a real woman is easy to find?
The goal of going out and trying to pick up women is to search for that "real " woman ,let's say ideal woman.
And about pua bullshi*ing a lot , well they just want to have fun and make a good impresion.

About those youtube videos , imo they'r main goal is to make an AFC confident so that he can start sarging and try openers and meet ppl , of course some of the videos are way off but that's youtube . . .
 

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The Spirit of the Great One is with you, lurker. Speed seduction is not only fake, but degrading to men as well. I don't know how advanced yoru sosuave training is yet, but I suspect you read the Book of Pook if you haven't yet. You'll be able to appreciate it.

You're right that you shouldn't talk about issues you find moronic merely to please other people. On the other hand, you also have to recognize the fact of nature that women have a hard time appreciating important issues like politics, math, religion, philosophy, etc. Of course, what all this goes to show you is that conversation is not really the path to a woman's heart.
 

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The main thing is to leave it on a high note. Studies have shown that if a person talks mostly about themselves in a conversation, they come away thinking it was a 'good conversation.' You've just got to say enough to get her talking about herself, and then ask a few questions here and there to keep it going.
 
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