"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Psychology today - How to spot a mysogynist

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I caught this article and thought a lot of it sounded strangely familiar.. ;-)

The author basically says that anyone who displays DJ skills is a misogynist..

Here's the link..
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mysteries-love/201502/12-ways-spot-misogynist

You'll all recognize #9 "Date" behavior... ala... Pook and Anti-dump...

So what do you think? Is this further proof of the wussifying of American men? Is there a conspiracy to turn more men into AFC's?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Now I understand why some women do these crazy things , they are men haters .
she is basically just trying to figure out what is like to hate a man and make it the opposite , most what she wrote women do it for men .
 

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I had to search this b!tch. Was expecting some fugly hooknosed rat faced deviant. (as is usually the case with these) Not this time, just another unhappy affirmative actioned sh!tlib who swapped out logic with her feeelz.

In most cases, misogynists do not even know that they hate women.
You don't say? How convenient.

He will zero in on a woman and choose her as his target. Her natural defenses may be down because he’s flirtatious, exciting, fun, and charismatic at first.
He won't zero in on me anymore :cry:

As time goes on, he begins to reveal a Jekyll & Hyde personality. He may change quickly from irresistible to rude, and from rude back to irresistible.
So he's....a human? :eek:

He will make promises to women and often fail to keep them. With men, on the other hand, he will almost always keep his word.
Well I'm sold. That's enough to label him as someone who literally hates women. When can we string him up?

He will be late for appointments and dates with women, but be quite punctual with men.
I'm sick of being stood up :cry:

His behavior toward women in general is grandiose, ****y, controlling, and self-centered.
I'm getting tingles just typing this.

He is extremely competitive
The West: Land of cucks, where mediocrity is praised and success is "misogyny"

If a woman does better than him socially or professionally, he feels terrible.
So he should. Beaten by a girl... at anything is grounds enough to contemplate suicide.

He will be prepared (unconsciously) to use anything within his power to make women feel miserable. He may demand sex or withhold sex in his relationships, make jokes about women or put them down in public, “borrow” their ideas in professional contexts without giving them credit, or borrow money from them without paying them back.
There go those tingles again.

Sexually, he likes to control women and gives little or no attention to their sexual pleasure. Foreplay, if it occurs at all, is only a necessary means to an end. He likes oral sex but only as a recipient. His favorite positions enable him to avoid looking the woman in her eyes.
Hmmm how would she know? And more importantly how would she have enough test subjects for a proper comparison?



"Psychology Today" :crackup: The irony.
 

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Dear Tvits,
you are funnier than anything on Television!
 

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( . )( . ) said:
I had to search this b!tch. Was expecting some fugly hooknosed rat faced deviant. (as is usually the case with these) Not this time, just another unhappy affirmative actioned sh!tlib who swapped out logic with her feeelz.



You don't say? How convenient.



He won't zero in on me anymore :cry:



So he's....a human? :eek:



Well I'm sold. That's enough to label him as someone who literally hates women. When can we string him up?



I'm sick of being stood up :cry:



I'm getting tingles just typing this.



The West: Land of cucks, where mediocrity is praised and success is "misogyny"



So he should. Beaten by a girl... at anything is grounds enough to contemplate suicide.



There go those tingles again.



Hmmm how would she know? And more importantly how would she have enough test subjects for a proper comparison?



"Psychology Today" :crackup: The irony.
________

That was awesome.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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haha sounds like she is telling us what makes HER \|/ tingle, and she is frustrated because she can't control that.
 

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mostly I find waht she write is what woman do to men, oh well one more useless thing, one more laught
 

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She left out one:

13. He will always have a line of adoring women chasing after him while at the same time, those same women will be lamenting around the brunch table, "where are all the good guys?" and telling stories about the "creepy" guy at work who is only equal to them in SMV, not 4 notches above, who dared to ask them out.
 

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wunnaBsmooth said:
You'll all recognize #9 "Date" behavior... ala... Pook and Anti-dump...
Point 9 says "if she is a more independent type who prefers to order her own meal and pay for it herself, he will rudely order for both and pay for it while she goes to the bàthroom". Is this what Pook recommends?
 

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We had a female PM in Australia. Worst PM in history , even accused the opposition of being a misogynist in parliament. She was turfed out then proceeded to whine how Australia was sexist(nothing to do with her terrible performance apparently). The country changed for the worst after that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm a misogynist. So what? I'll stop being one when women catch up to men in capability.
 
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