"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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backseatjuan

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What do you call this behaviour and how to deal with it?


Someone brings you computer for repair, screen replacement, you replace it, price is good, and you only make $20 off of it, the rest is the price of the screen. After the cleint brings computer home she call you and tells you that now battery is not charging, and something else that has nothing to do with LCD replacement.

Another scenario, you change display on an iphone, the client check it over and tell you that the sound is not the way it used to be. You check it over and dinamic is normal, it does not buzz, or make noises, everything is creastal clear.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's the "Someone pissed in my cornflakes" complex.
 

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You know how you like to brag about Russia being a lawless land? Well, that's great if you are d!cking over business owners. But unfortunately, you are a business owner. Here, in the US, we have these things called "contracts." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contract

When someone breaks a contract, we have this other thing called a "court system." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judiciary

You don't have things like contracts or real courts in Russia, which is why your country will always be a sh!tty place to try and run a business.
 

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I can't translate that 'pissed in my cornflax syndrome', I need something more scientific. I literally gonna write an information bulletin and hang in the most visible place. Presently I'm writing acts when I take electronics for repair and when I repair it and give it back, which basically states warranty is given for a certain period of time indicated above and it is only for that thing that was repaired, you have 2 hours to check normal operation of your device, after 2 hours everything will be taken as a new brakage. This had an effect to a degree, at least I don't get people returning, but I do get calls from time to time, like in examples above. No one is going to go to court over sh1t like this, but they could complain to department of better business. I need some guns at hand with psychology, so I can deal with people like that accordingly. I doubt that they are trying to screw me over though, I believe something is wrong with their head. Let's face it, they come already pissed here, they broke their device, and most of them don't even want to admit it was their fault. That's issues with head and I think these issues are universal.
 

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It's called: Dealing With Crazy Fûcking People Syndrome. Most countries on Earth have this issue. There is no known cure for DWCFPS at the moment.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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