"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PSYCHO ALERTS: cats, tatoos...ect

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[R]eality said:
Don't knock bipolarity
Did it, done it, and bought the t-shirt.

last girlfriend was OCD, BPD, Bi-Polar, ADD, and a few other undiagnoised things.

Don't ever do it.

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EDIT: She was actually put into mental institution, a school for special kids for people with disablities, and was expelled from normal schools. She graduated from a votech school as class Valevictorian.

STAY FAR AWAY FROM THESE TYPES OF PEOPLE. She is now the biggest b!tch at Millersville University.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ripper said:
She watches "sex and the city" or "desperate housewives" - I think you'll find this is virtually every female in N.America.
Which is truly a warning sign.
 

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SHlT!!!

NeverFear said:
Think again.
For black guys, their agenda in dating white girls is fairly obvious, and with the 90 percent illegitimacy rate in the black culture, its all the more frightening.

Look around. How many mixed race illegitimate hook ups that result in children wind up creating well adjusted children as opposed to gang neophytes?

You guys are all like a whole bunch of f*ckin' Children who can't start one single thread w/o making some kind of nasty remark toward race, or religion or political sh*t, (all 3 have been mentioned so far!). Its only a matter of time before this post has a master lock on it.

90 f*ckin' % illegitamacy rate?????? HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE IF THE USA HAS A 97% LITERACY RATE? AND BLACK PEOPLE ARE 13% OF THE POPULATION???? The rate would be much much lower, and that's considering 100% of the people from every other ethnicity can read. you do the math f*ckin crack baby......
 

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Heh, nothing like a thread about psycho chicks to bring the psychos out!

Does anybody else see the comedic irony in this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Unshaven legs

I just found out this week that one of my friends does not mind women who do not shave their pits and legs and who belch in front of him. Can I assume he is borderline queer?

6, 7, 8 and 10 I disagree with. Too many cats and toos are a sure bet for looney toones. :whistle:

Oh, yes, and you do sound very experienced in the psycho-b****.

Peace and love :trouble:
 

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Personally, I wish retards would not have children (90% of the American public).

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She gives you head on the first date in the back seat of your car = psycho
 

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Thugo said:
She gives you head on the first date in the back seat of your car = psycho

What that makes you for allowing it?

If you sleep with a woman that you find cheap...then you... by definition become cheap.
 

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i think instead of jumping to conclusions and generalizing , you should get to know the girl beforehand.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ_in_making said:
You guys are all like a whole bunch of f*ckin' Children who can't start one single thread w/o making some kind of nasty remark toward race, or religion or political sh*t, (all 3 have been mentioned so far!). Its only a matter of time before this post has a master lock on it.
The only children are the ones who pretend like these things don't have a real world effect. Race makes a difference. Religion makes a difference. Covering your ears and being politically correct and saying "race don't matter la la la la" is ridiculous.

"We are a nation that is unenlightened because of religion. I do believe that. I think religion stops people from thinking. I think it justified crazies." - Bill Maher

9/11 - religion
crusades - religion
stem cell research crippled - religion
gay marriage - religion

Religion does more harm than good in my opinion. My favorite thing about it is that it keeps the vast majority of people entertained and fairly in line even IF it's a fairy tale. Oh, I know i'll get a lot of flack for saying it's likely a fairy tale... but as soon as you pick one religion aren't you pointing at all the other religions and saying "you're wrong! you just made up a bunch of stories!" What the hell makes your stories the right ones?

Women do this stuff all the time. We talk about it all the time. Women filter out men based on a lot of criteria even if we think it's not fair. We should do the same. Let us men filter the women before we even get involved. Not pretty enough? You're out. Too religious? You're out. You have minority children and the daddy is in jail? You're out simply because that screams likely trash. So sorry for you women that aren't. So sad. It just saves so much trouble. The woman is LIKELY to suck because of these things but there are millions of women that are still good so it's no big loss. Men need to save their time and frustration and go straight for the women with the high likelihood of being GOOD women. If she talks about jesus all the time she's probably a crazy even if there is a chance she's perfectly awesome. You're better off just passing her by and looking for another though.

I know. It sucks being labeled for your race. But don't blame us. Blame your race. There's millions of perfectly stable, smart, educated, well-adjusted people of all races, but if your race is clogging up the jail system and whatever other bad things then you're damn right i'm going to look at you with a leery eye until you prove that you are one of the exceptions of that race. It's the rational thing to do.
 

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9/11 - ignorance
crusades - ignorance
stem cell research crippled - ignorance
gay marriage - ignorance

Thugo said:
She gives you head on the first date in the back seat of your car = psycho
Gives head on the first date in the back seat of the your car = keeper.
 

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IamRAMBO said:
9/11 - ignorance
crusades - ignorance
stem cell research crippled - ignorance
gay marriage - ignorance

What point are you trying to make here?


Gives head on the first date in the back seat of the your car = keeper.
uh. yeah. funny.
 

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DJ_in_making said:
90 f*ckin' % illegitamacy rate?????? HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE IF THE USA HAS A 97% LITERACY RATE? AND BLACK PEOPLE ARE 13% OF THE POPULATION???? The rate would be much much lower, and that's considering 100% of the people from every other ethnicity can read. you do the math f*ckin crack baby......
You are joking, right?

You do understand the difference between illegitimacy & illiteracy?

Or are you ironically illiterate (and probably an illegitimate crack baby) yourself? :crackup:
 
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