"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PSYCHO ALERTS: cats, tatoos...ect

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PSYCHO ALERT LISTS: PLease add your own:

1. Cats. The more they have, the more of a psycho she is

2. Tatoos. Ditto.

3. Mixed Race Kids: Ditto

4. A Dirty Car

5. She "doesnt cook"

6. Dad gives her money

7. She watches "sex and the city" or "desperate housewives"

8. She smokes

9. Unshaven legs

10. Too much make up
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NeverFear said:
PSYCHO ALERT LISTS: PLease add your own:

1. Cats. The more they have, the more of a psycho she is

2. Tatoos. Ditto.

3. Mixed Race Kids: Ditto

4. A Dirty Car

5. She "doesnt cook"

6. Dad gives her money

7. She watches "sex and the city" or "desperate housewives"

8. She smokes

9. Unshaven legs

10. Too much make up
You're an idiot. What does the race of her kids have to do with anything? The more kids she has without legit fathers, yes, the bigger probability that she's trash. That's it.

I smoke, and have a tattoo. I'm not a psycho. Fukking moron.
 

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I would cut smoking and dirty car from the list.

Stuff I would add:

Religious (sorry, but that's been my experience)
Jobless
Number of Ex-Husbands
Age 30+ w/o kids
Drinks lots of alcohol
Number of kids she has
Behavior of her kid(s)
over / under sleeping
 

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I believe we need to distinguish between psycho and trashy.

Psycho = negative actions that one cannot help
Trashy = negative actions that one chooses
 

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any mind problems (BPD, Bi-polar, OCD, or etc.)

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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speed dawg said:
I believe we need to distinguish between psycho and trashy.

Psycho = negative actions that one cannot help
Trashy = negative actions that one chooses
I wouldn't necessarily say that they are trashy but they are definitely a product of their choices.
 

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speed dawg said:
You're an idiot. What does the race of her kids have to do with anything? The more kids she has without legit fathers, yes, the bigger probability that she's trash. That's it.

I smoke, and have a tattoo. I'm not a psycho. Fukking moron.
I'm with you on the race of their children and how many fathers (or do they still call them "baby's daddies") they have. Outside of that, the list itself is a bit disturbing because its just a list of possible symptoms of a completely different issue such as the lack of self sufficiency.
 

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obsessed with weapons

Instead of collection jewelry like any other normal women, she collects fvcking weapons! :nervous:

She has three sets of samurai sword sets, shooting stars, pocket knives, brood sword, scyths, etc. -- all these weapons can be found scattered around her house, but mostly all located in her room.

Her obsession with knives was not enough, so she got a job at a knife store, where she sells her "shinnys"

She has a very strange obsession with Angelina Jolie and/or wanting to be a man.

She has scars from cutting herself in different places of her body. Her wrists especially, but that was before she met me.

She hates men, but most especially her dad.

She scratched the hell out of my back and neck during sex -- I didn't like this pain after a while.

I definately agree about the cats! The ex I described above started out with one cat when we nearly breaking up and has got another cat since we broke up. She now lives alone and has kicked out her former bisexual female roommate lover.

Yeah, I can say it's good AND safe to be 500 miles from her! :rock:
 

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Desdinova said:
I would cut smoking and dirty car from the list.

Stuff I would add:

Religious (sorry, but that's been my experience)
Jobless
Number of Ex-Husbands
Age 30+ w/o kids
Drinks lots of alcohol
Number of kids she has
Behavior of her kid(s)
over / under sleeping
I'm with you on the religious tip (and politics for that matter). Religion is great for some people but it is in no means an absolute for everyone. Religious and political zealots are typically self righteous in their actions and beliefs.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I'm with you on the religious tip (and politics for that matter). Religion is great for some people but it is in no means an absolute for everyone. Religious and political zealots are typically self righteous in their actions and beliefs.
Totally agree with you there my good friend.
 

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resilient said:
Instead of collection jewelry like any other normal women, she collects fvcking weapons! :nervous:

She has three sets of samurai sword sets, shooting stars, pocket knives, brood sword, scyths, etc. -- all these weapons can be found scattered around her house, but mostly all located in her room.

Her obsession with knives was not enough, so she got a job at a knife store, where she sells her "shinnys"

She has a very strange obsession with Angelina Jolie
:rock:
up to that point, she would be my dream woman
 

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Mixed raced marriages have and probably always will create controversy, many are for it, many are against it, it is just one of those things.
Many white dudes who would be happy to date a black woman with either a full or half blood black child, would feel less at ease being with a white babe whose child is fathered by a black dude, which is strange, but true.
The black and white dating issue seems to create more controversy than do any other types of mixed raced relations.
Black dudes think that HB7-10 white chicks who only date successful white dude hunks are b1thes and snobs, yet on the other hand, the white dudes veiw the white babes who do date the black dudes as being tarts and cheap.
In my veiw both of these judgements are wrong, because I beleive that it is every womans right to be able to choose what ever dude she desires to be with.
God has given us all a free will to do as we desire to do as far as dating goes, if mixed raced relations were wrong, then no babies would be being born from them, yet at the same time if people only wish to date others of their own race and color, it is their God given right to do this.
I personally can't understand why people just won't accept a HBs own personal decision when it comes to her selection of dating partners. :yes:
Well put:up:

To each his own and general assumptions are pretty dumb overall. Good post.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desdinova said:
I would cut smoking and dirty car from the list.

Stuff I would add:

Religious (sorry, but that's been my experience)
Jobless
Number of Ex-Husbands
Age 30+ w/o kids
Drinks lots of alcohol
Number of kids she has
Behavior of her kid(s)
over / under sleeping
If you happen to be a 40 year old dude who is being allured by a HB10 22 year old long blonde haired Born Again Christian babe who is attempting to convert you, Religion can be an awesome thing, as long as you are happy to stay with the girl she cannot leave you unless you commit Adultery, of which you obviously won't be doing unless you decide to leave, this really can work to your advantage in your more senior years.
I don't like HBs who are over 30 with kids, I am always getting myself hooked up with them, then they get upset when I leave them because of this reason, I much prefer HBs who are 30+ that don't have kids, as they are much easier to be with and it could also develop into a longer term thing, if this is possible due to my womanizing ways these days.
It seems as if you all hate Cats, none of you dudes have added Dogs or any other Animals to your unwanted list.
Appart from these couple of things your list is very good. :yes:
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
You'll notice he didn't refute any of the assumptions I made. :up:
Did you say something?
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
I don't track your posts, it's not hard to garner what someone is like when they've posted thousands of times on a forum.
Oh, and thanks for noticing; I'm glad that I can keep your interest. :up:
 

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She watches "sex and the city" or "desperate housewives" - I think you'll find this is virtually every female in N.America.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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