Psh. Field Report.

[iqqi]

Why do you talk like a hoodrat.

Well seriously, I grew up in a "bad neighborhood" aka the hood.

On a less serious note, I am just really cool. And cool people use slang here and there. Ya dig? It tends to keep things light. And airy.

I used to be a lot worse.

Why do you sound like an uptight math nerd all the time?

 

[ketostix]

Why do you sound like an uptight math nerd all the time?

Maybe because sex is like math, add the bed, subtract the clothes, divide her legs and hope to not multiply, ya dig?

 

[iqqi]

Maybe because sex is like math, add the bed, subtract the clothes, divide her legs and hope to not multiply, ya dig?

I do... but i bet you don't really.

Still, decent equation, kid.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

See this is what bothers me. She first came up with the idea of meeting even though she was sick. I didn't push the issue at first. I asked her if she was sure, and she said it wouldn't be a problem.


Secondly, why is it desperate for me to call 4 times in a hour when I had to walk 20 minutes to meet where she said she wanted to meet? She knows I'm walking! Again, no resistance at ALL from her! No "y know, we could always meet up some other time" or "I'm really tired, let's do this next week" NO TRACE OF THAT WHATSOEVER!!

That's what has me so confused.

And you want to know something else? F*ck these sh!t test I supposedly failed. A lot of girls I know wouldn't have done this sh!t. They would have been polite or blunt if they didn't want to meet up. They wouldn't have kept agreeing to find a way to meet up.

I didn't fail anything. If she's not sick then she's the most deceitful attention ***** that I've ever me. She's a straight up b!tch and I'm glad nothing came of it.

 

[jophil28]

I didn't fail anything. If she's not sick then she's the most deceitful attention ***** that I've ever me. She's a straight up b!tch and I'm glad nothing came of it.

Exactly right - you did not fail anything. Forget this "sh1t test" passing or failing mentality - we are not on this planet to be "graded" by women or to get our term SATS from the female population. YOu were played, stung along and toyed with by an AW for some perverted ego boost on her part. She wanted to see you chase and hunt her and THAT is why she continued to feed you buying signals and "come get me " messages. When you got close to the end zone she disappeared into silence . SHe got what she wanted -she wanted you in "pursuit" mode of her as prize. YOu were drawn into a sneeky game by an AW who presented as the genuine article but was a fake in gift wrapping.. WE all get one or two of these occasionally - and don't let the huffers and puffers here try to make you believe that somehow this was all your doing and YOU are the problem and you are not enough this or that or the other thing ..the usual BS..

Write this one off as just a bad outcome ,and be mindful that sometimes you just cant see what's under the bling and the pretty wrapping.

 

[MacAvoy]

I think it was a great FR. I also agree with your last post about being glad that you found out now that she's not worth your time. You played your cards, you can't expect to win every time. Now get out there and play a new hand.

 

[iqqi]

I don't think it was some sh!t test, and I don't think it was done out of pure evilness... however that is a possibility. Not every bad outcome is purposeful on anyone's part.

I think she is careless, had some other issue that was in the way, and like I said, careLESS. Without care, to your feelings or time.

This was manslaughter, but not 1st degree murder.

Whatever the case, don't give her a second chance. No matter WHY she did that, she is a straight B!TCH for having you walk over there, then leave you hanging. She could have contacted you somehow. And that is not the part that I thought made you look kind of desperate. It was the part where you didn't care if she was sick, or ditzy (lost the keys). It isn't about what SHE wanted ("are you sure???" u asked her), its about what you were OK with.

Next time a chick is not well, you should act like you'd rather wait to see her when she is better. Or less ditzy. Or... AVAILABLE completely, without EXCUSE or STORY.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Yeah, Iqqi, the only reason I didn't just say "let's do it next time" was because her signals read "I'm REALLY REALLY INTERESTED". I'm not naive enough to just imagine high interest level. I saw it. XP

You're right though. Next time I'll just arrange for a later meeting when a girl is under the weather, even if she says she's interested.

Jo, thank you! I remember you defending me in my other post a while back and I think you're right on the money in this post! This girl was straight out rude, and it's not like I didn't anything to motivate that behavior. It was totally unwarranted.

Mac, my man. Dating is tough. Well, dating the WRONG girls is tough. :crackup:

 

[iqqi]

No, you said it right the first time.

Dating is rough, period.

If it was easy, we'd always be getting with the wrong people. Eh?

 

[ThunderMaverick]

No, you said it right the first time.

Dating is rough, period.

If it was easy, we'd always be getting with the wrong people. Eh?

Wanna go out sometime?:crackup:

 

[iqqi]

I got your #. Next time I'm in Cali, I'll hit you up.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I got your #. Next time I'm in Cali, I'll hit you up.

I was expecting a joke, but...there it is. hahaha

If you're in town...I might be sick. You can come with me to the hospital if you want. It'll be like an ACTION DATE!

 

[iqqi]

I was expecting a joke, but...there it is. hahaha

If you're in town...I might be sick. You can come with me to the hospital if you want. It'll be like an ACTION DATE!

If you are in the hospital, or even sniffling, then I am going out with Cordoncordon instead. Or my buddy WJH. He LOVES me.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

If you are in the hospital, or even sniffling, then I am going out with Cordoncordon instead. Or my buddy WJH. He LOVES me.

Actually, WJH lives out here in the same city that I do. We've never met. It's a small valley so we probably know each other! LOL. That would be really funny.

When Cordon comes out here we should all hang out and game some hors!! Iqqi can be our wing woman! A group of guys are harmless when a girl is thrown into the mix. You'll be the perfect bait!

 

[iqqi]

Actually, WJH lives out here in the same city that I do. We've never met. It's a small valley so we probably know each other! LOL. That would be really funny.

When Cordon comes out here we should all hang out and game some hors!! Iqqi can be our wing woman! A group of guys are harmless when a girl is thrown into the mix. You'll be the perfect bait!

Cordon lives in Santa Monica.

I'm down.

edit: you guys should pitch in and buy me a ticket.