Prude nice girl

[BCOMusic]

So I've been seeing this girl every weekend for three weeks, we always end up making out pretty much everywhere we go.

In her bed, In my bed, on the sidewalk.

Everywhere.

But tonight, we are making out and i'm trying to escalate it because im sick of just kissing her.

She lets my hands roam wherever I want, but she always has her clothes on.

So we start making out over at my place, it won't go further, I take my clothes off, she just won't.

I keep trying

Then I give up on it, and we move to her place, i figure maybe shed be more comfortable over there

So now were at her place, her roomate is OUT OF TOWN!

We are making out again, this time she lets me roam free again, I take off my pants shirt and I'm almost naked.

I'm like saying lets take a shower, this and that, trying everything.

But she just won't go further.

Then she says to me

I like you alot, but i'm just not ready for that.

I respect that so I just kiss her, hold her for a little bit, and then I leave.

Now i'm wondering if this is ********? or truth? I will not let myself get played.

Either way I guess i could next her, but she and I get along really well, and she intiates almost 5-6 times a week, her interest level is crazy high, she does whatever I want, she just lets me lead and I always end up kissing her, every time I see her. I could go to a grocery store and this chick would follow me holding onto me no matter what, it's actually really enjoyable.

I haven't even called her once yet since we met.

I think she is a virgin, but i don't know
I just need some advice.

I want to go further, and I would absolutely date her, but only if the sex is where I want it to be, and it isn't yet

My buddy thinks im over analyzing and I should just let it happen the way it happens, I just don't want to keep making out, I get bored, and I don't want her to get bored.

I can honestly say I don't know what to do about this, it has nothing to do with attracting her or raising her interest level, she is naturally attracted to who I am.

It is about breaking the barrier she has around her about sex, because I'm not just in it for the sex, but Id rather break through that barrier sooner than later.

If we aren't fcking, I am bored. I mean **** we had the place to ourselves, and she just wouldn't budge, I tried everything I knew to get at least her shirt off but she wouldn't

What do yall think.

No NEXT her, because I like her, and she likes me, she wants to be exclusive, but I haven't made my decision yet.

I'm already going to go find a party girl on the side, I'm thinking that is my solution, but

ADVICE on escalation, prude nice girls and the likes and just some downright smart insight is all i'm asking for.

 

[Tenzen]

The thing that works best with these types of chicks is alcohol. Take her hand and make it roam around ur body. Getting her warmed up takes awhile so just keep going at it and watch her breathing. If it gets heavier then u go for taking off her shirt.

 

[BCOMusic]

Yea man, I appreciate the response

She will like start to do it, and then start doubting herself.

It's ****ed up, I don't know

she can't hold out much longer

my **** is too big haha

 

[Tenzen]

maybe shes not sexually confident with her body. LOL, if u want tell her: "Keep ur cloths on, u look so sexy in them" Shes bound to the do opposite. Kinda krazy but ur in fcuked up situation. I dun know what else to say hahhaha

 

[Jaxon]

You need to train her ass. You say you're doing things with her 5-6 times a week, and you're not even exclusive? Waaaaay too much my man.

Sounds like you're kissing her way too much as well. She obviously enjoys it and it's what she wants to do, but you're not getting to do what you want. You need to hold back on the kissing until she leans more your way.

She gives a little, then you can give some back. But as of now she has the power and she's running the show, because she decides what will and won't happen. Take your balls back man!

 

[Ostepop]

give her alcohol and try getting her wet using your hands through the clothes. Or just suck on her neck, chicks digg that.

 

[BCOMusic]

hhaha good stuff fellas

no, i dont do stuff with her 5-6 times a week, she calls me 5-6 times a week, i hang wit her on the weekends usually

I absolutely do kiss her too much, but I guess i didnt want to fall into freinds but not being sexual

i dont really care that much anymore though, im not to worried about the outcome,

she isn't sexually confident, so you are right about that

she gets the shakes whenever I touch her stomach so that sucks.

but its all good, i mean whatever happens happens i definatly don't need her