"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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prude girl

Perry

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so i met this girl on friday at a party and we hit it off well. the next night she comes over to my place to play drinking games and before you know we put on wedding crashers and start making out. in between the kissing she tells me that shes not a hoe etc. shes in a sorority and apparently she is known as the prude one of the sorority.

a little later on into the movie/night she gets on top of me and we start grinding. at this point i put my hand on her boob for maybe 2 seconds and she stops me.

now dont get me wrong, id rather have a prude girl than a raging wh0re, but is there anyway to break through that wall. maybe while we are kissing, like biting her lip (gently), kissing neck etc? or is this just a trust issue and im gonna have to prove myself to her? thanks in advance for the help.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FinalWay

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a prude is a prude...why stop in the middle of it?...more detail
 

Perry

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hmmm i thought that would be enough detail, but maybe im just trying to find an answer thats already right under my nose. that a prude is a prude like you said. we stopped in the middle of it for 2 reasons.

one was my roommates sometimes had to walk through the room to get to their room. the 2nd reason we would stop was because it would go on for awhile so we'd stop. i dunno, what other detail do i need to include?
 
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