Proximity: IOI?

[mackdaknife]

I was hanging out at the bookstore the other day, and I had something interesting happen. I believe on MASF it's called PAIMAI.

I was alone at the magazine stand, perusing some magazines. Out of nowhere, this gorgeous brunette Latina in supertight jeans and stiletto heels appears out of nowhere. She lingers around the magazine racks for about five minutes or so, but never picks up a single magazine. She wanders closer and closer, until she is eventually standing directly behind me, not saying or doing anything. She stands there for several minutes not doing anything.

She eventually leaves, never having picked up a single book or magazine. Nor does she however look me in the eye or talk to me.

I see her again the next day, walk by and try to establish eye contact. She completely ignores me! I don't get this.

 

[stand]

I'm sure it had nothing to do with her basically throwing herself at you; and you looking like an insecure little b!tch by doing nothing.

Well done.

 

[Dongfu]

I think she just had a fight with her bf and she thought "Im gonna fvck the first decent guy I see, just to show him." You missed out. The next day when she saw you she was already back with the bf

 

[snowdog]

I'm sure it had nothing to do with her basically throwing herself at you; and you looking like an insecure little b!tch by doing nothing.

Well done.

LOL.

 

[mackdaknife]

LOL.

Don't feed the troll, tsk, tsk.

 

[stand]

Don't feed the troll, tsk, tsk.

How am I trolling?

How do you think you handled the situation? Actually does it even matter after the response you got from her the next day you saw her? Pretty much confirms what I said doesn't it?

Sorry for the harsh criticism, but you dropped the ball. Now learn from your mistakes.

 

[Snow Plowman]

I'm sure it had nothing to do with her basically throwing herself at you; and you looking like an insecure little b!tch by doing nothing.

Well done.

He is actually spot on...she was there waiting for you to approach and you pusvied out. It's obvious she'll rationalize you as being a chode and forget about you the next time she sees you. It's almost like she is putting herself out there just for you to open her and you were scared to approach.

The most obvious example I've ever seen of this in my life was a chick in a 2set seen me and says to her friend "I don't want to go into the store I'll wait right here" sitting next to me. 5mins of her friend trying to get her to come in and there arguing playfully of course. I test something out and immediately stand up and she goes "ok fine lets go" I sit back down lol, and when they come out of the story they are a few feet away sitting somewhere else and the chick who's interested has her back facing me and her friend looking in my direction.

Sets like these are the easiest to open because they are already attracted. You said Latina and high heels so I know she had ooze sex appeal, I feel bad for you if you actually found her attracted and didn't approach lol.

This isn't to say that its over for you and her though, just you will be going in with her already percieving you as a chode so you'll just have abit more work to do.

 

[mackdaknife]

I guess her beauty intimidated me. She had a ridiculous body, seriously curvy but proportioned booty wrapped skin tight in those jeans and then black stiletto heeled boots. Gorgeous baby face too.

 

[stand]

I guess her beauty intimidated me. She had a ridiculous body, seriously curvy but proportioned booty wrapped skin tight in those jeans and then black stiletto heeled boots. Gorgeous baby face too.

It happens. It has happened to me. I learned from it though.

I remember about a year ago I was in line with a buddy getting food and these 2 HBs came behind us. This girl was drooling over me and basically throwing herself at me. I tell my buddy after we get food and sit down I'll approach.

So, we sit down they sit a few seats over and as I'm literally going over to talk to her this nerdy guy walks in and gets in on it. 10 minutes later they're making out and I am sitting there in complete shock. This girl was ridiculously hot. That should have been me. Instead I waited for some god unknown reason. Terrible.

I haven't made that mistake since though and I hope you don't either.

 

[Dongfu]

It happens. It has happened to me. I learned from it though.

I remember about a year ago I was in line with a buddy getting food and these 2 HBs came behind us. This girl was drooling over me and basically throwing herself at me. I tell my buddy after we get food and sit down I'll approach.

So, we sit down they sit a few seats over and as I'm literally going over to talk to her this nerdy guy walks in and gets in on it. 10 minutes later they're making out and I am sitting there in complete shock. This girl was ridiculously hot. That should have been me. Instead I waited for some god unknown reason. Terrible.

I haven't made that mistake since though and I hope you don't either.

That is heartbreaking

 

[stand]

That is heartbreaking

It was the sickest thing I have ever been a part of. Just ridiculous. I had trouble sleeping that night.

 

[snowdog]

I guess her beauty intimidated me. She had a ridiculous body, seriously curvy but proportioned booty wrapped skin tight in those jeans and then black stiletto heeled boots. Gorgeous baby face too.

Approach as many women as you can and you'll grow over this fear. Read my journal in my signature and you'll see was having this problem too. It's perfectly fixable.

 

[Snow Plowman]

I guess her beauty intimidated me. She had a ridiculous body, seriously curvy but proportioned booty wrapped skin tight in those jeans and then black stiletto heeled boots. Gorgeous baby face too.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

I knew it lol, you know whats funny about 7 months ago after going out for a good while I remember seeing a chick I'd rate a solid 9. I'm talking about drop dead, bust a nut on sight gorgeous lol. I remember seeing her walk in and my mind instantly started saying...

"OMFG, there is no way in hell I could game that she'll blow me out, she's too hot."

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Luckily I was already practicing hardcore for a good 4 months so I caught myself and was like...

"WTF, do you hear yourself, STOP thinking about Bull****" (Note I was on line getting food)

Then low and behold she is standing right next to me and you know what happened...I opened and the SET FLEW!!!!!!

I'm talking about this chick was giggling and everything was just flowing. (This is the day I realized game works better on hotter chicks) Were talking for about 5mins and I naturally get my food and LEAVE!!! I get to my friends who was with one of my girlies and I was telling them I just met the hottest chick I've ever seen.

I then realized I EJECTED because I was happy about the approaching and having a good interaction, so my mind was saying "Fuk that you have to go back" and you know what...I reopened and she was so happy to see me...my girl even seen her lol, but I ejected again!!

It may sound AFC but she was trying to fix herself up while I was talking to her and she was fixing her bra and you could see she had fake tits but overall body was GGGREAT!!!. After I approached her I was able to approach any girl because it would've been awhile until I seen a hot chick like her...until a few months later I change sarging locations and I see chicks just as hot as her on the regular.

A bit off-topic but I know how you felt, those are the chicks you MUST approach no matter what.

 

[mackdaknife]

I'm not sure if we are even disagreeing. My take is, looks aren't everything. At least, grooming isn't everything (as I receive compliments about my looks regularly). Today, I woke up, rolled out of bed, and went about my day. Did not shower, didn't brush my teeth, shave, or wear nice clothes.

I just rolled out in some sweats, with stank breath and several days of beard growth. I didn't smell daisy fresh either. Nonetheless, more AI's and IOI's than I have had combined in several weeks.

At church, some girl I've seen around, an extremely pretty half Asian girl in her late teens, sits by me and stares at me every chance she gets. She asks me: "so...do you come here often?" Isn't that supposed to be MY pickup line?!?

Some girl was staring at me immediately as I enter the record store. I open immediately and ask her some little chit chat questions. I end the convo go about my business, but she makes a point of telling me about two places that she hangs out a lot at, without my asking. This is a Latina with a tiny bangin' little body, very pretty face.

Two possibilities: 1: pheromones/underarm scent attracts the ladies. 2. If you just roll out like you just don't care, girls can sense you are comfortable with yourself. Third possibility: Latin chicks are into me.