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Whatever they wanna hear. Figure that out and you will be a rich man or perhaps not.Very smart. What does the audience WANT to hear?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Whatever they wanna hear. Figure that out and you will be a rich man or perhaps not.Very smart. What does the audience WANT to hear?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Jesus said that if you are a true follower of his, you WILL be persecuted. The world will hate you, as it hates him.Very hard to look good as a man who's truly a christian. Obama is loved by the world just like a Joel Osteen is loved by the world.
Start acting like John the Baptist and see what happens. Some people will tolerate your outbursts but would rather you not talk about God at all.
Talk about being happy and making money and everyone will love you.
If a man is divorced because of his wife’s adultery, he has a clean slate. Or if she deserted (divorced) him and there is absolutely no chance of reconciliation. I can’t help but think that if a woman turned out to be psycho and he just had to get away, there may be some leniency there, but as always it’s between him and God....and you are 63 years old too? Well, guess there is plenty of time to find a Provebs 31 women, assuming the Rapture or a major event doesn't happen before November, 2020, in which case, this discussion is an interesting diversion. Are Proverbs 31 women cool with divorcees, or they only deal with widows and never married men?
People will actively avoid you, try and annoy you, have you fired from jobs to avoid you, perhaps physically assault you. If your a big boy who looks a bit aggressive then perhaps they will avoid that route.Jesus said that if you are a true follower of his, you WILL be persecuted. The world will hate you, as it hates him.
I always say that everyone wants to go to heaven as long as God’s not there.
That sounds fair.If a man is divorced because of his wife’s adultery, he has a clean slate. Or if she deserted (divorced) him and there is absolutely no chance of reconciliation. I can’t help but think that if a woman turned out to be psycho and he just had to get away, there may be some leniency there, but as always it’s between him and God.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Or write nasty posts on here, like you need to see a shrink because you are too fanatical about Jesus or the Biblical mindset, or like @Good Gao , telling me to leave the board, lol! But again, anything on here is childsplay compared to real life.People will actively avoid you, try and annoy you, have you fired from jobs to avoid you, perhaps physically assault you. If your a big boy who looks a bit aggressive then perhaps they will avoid that route.
I know what you mean.The proverbs 31 woman is the one who enters your life when you're ready, and your situation is right.
But, things are soooo wrong, right now....financially, socially, etc.
Oasis does good things outside of service time. None here yet that I know of.Of course, but it's up to the people to follow through with it on the other 6 days. I don't feel just exposure to a 1 hour or brief gathering per week, then the rest of the day, and rest of the week, all the worldly values seeping in through co-workers, friends, family, social media, etc...
Even inside a church you can see women texting away or going on a social media app, etc.... Even if there is a message like that, (i.e proverbs 31), it may be only made once in a blue moon and on Mother's Day, or if there is a pre-marriage class or something like that.
My experience to date with church is not that type of carry-over community like you are suggesting. In fact, I don't know any church that is even like that. You have an ideal of what a church is supposed to be, and maybe it was like that in the Early church, but its certainly not like that today.
Mrs. Obama is a great lady.We assessed that most proverbs 31 women or self proclaimed proverbs 31 woman are talking shyt. They are the same self serving, selfish, control hungry and man hating as the rest of them. But yes a minority exists.
I use Michelle Obama as a good example of a good wife. A good wife helps you, makes you look good and your growth and influence is amplified.
I'm not a perfect man. Nor do i ever want to be. But im a great bf or husband. I'm someone who can enable her to grow vs go back and forth slowing each other down.

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Have not heard of this. Thanks for referral.Oasis does good things outside of service time. None here yet that I know of.
It is a community based congregational style that can be frequented in conjunction with your current Christian churches.Have not heard of this. Thanks for referral.
The excorcism video was extreme, i mean i want my kids to be safe and live reasonably "good", but not with that level of "constriction".Or write nasty posts on here, like you need to see a shrink because you are too fanatical about Jesus or the Biblical mindset, or like @Good Gao , telling me to leave the board, lol! But again, anything on here is childsplay compared to real life.
My technical reply to this is that you probably didn't understand my reply to your OP. The video is exposing a demonic spirit associated with women being manipulative or horish, etc... and put a name and a face to it. There is lots of exorcism videos where "Jezebel" is exorcised out of women.The excorcism video was extreme, i mean i want my kids to be safe and live reasonably "good", but not with that level of "constriction".
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Jezebel spirit is real but most won't want to live like that guy.My technical reply to this is that you probably didn't understand my reply to your OP. The video is exposing a demonic spirit associated with women being manipulative or horish, etc... and put a name and a face to it. There is lots of exorcism videos where "Jezebel" is exorcised out of women.
My heart-to-heart reply is that nothing about the true Jesus and His message in the NT Bible is popular. Lots of people turned away from Him (John 6:66 -- yeah 666 right?) People want a flavour of Christianity because it sounds good or it's better than the trash that's in the world, but reject Jesus, cherry-pick His teachings, and want to avoid persecution. Jesus said that broad is the way that leads to destruction, but narrow is the way to life, and few there by that find it. That means you have to live a certain standard of "constriction" or it's not true Christianity and you are in the broad road.
There are plenty of lukewarm churches out there that don't have the fire of God. If you had a true revelation from God then you would become born-again and your whole attitude on allot of issues even on here would change. So, while I can't say that listening to Bob Larson will get you there, I can say that there is something more out there that you have missed out on as it pertains to the reality of knowing Jesus personally and not just knowing OF Him historically. Each person has to seek this out individually.
I'd imagine, that they examine you and your spirit. So it's really not their job to be on a pedestal anyway. A proverbs 31 woman is wise because she is a "help mate". It doesn't mean she can't achieve things in life, she can! Simply not at the expense of her man....and you are 63 years old too? Well, guess there is plenty of time to find a Provebs 31 women, assuming the Rapture or a major event doesn't happen before November, 2020, in which case, this discussion is an interesting diversion. Are Proverbs 31 women cool with divorcees, or they only deal with widows and never married men?
The serpent appeared to eve because he knew he could seduce her mind.Feminism = Femaxism = Marxism
Feminism has always been a tool of Cultural Marxism. Why do you think the Serpent appeared to Eve, instead of to Adam? Marxism has always been a form of Satanism.
Nice topic.With the insanity in the world if the Christian churches could build and encourage Proverbs 31 wives it would be a great reason to wait to get married. https://avirtuouswoman.org/10-virtues-of-the-proverbs-31-woman/
Imagine that, if they figured out it's actually better for them if their man is stronger and more capable instead of marginalizing him. ( You have this entity, that willI'd imagine, that they examine you and your spirit. So it's really not their job to be on a pedestal anyway. A proverbs 31 woman is wise because she is a "help mate". It doesn't mean she can't achieve things in life, she can! Simply not at the expense of her man.
Very good. Im not sure why women of this day and age have an issue investing in something that makes her life easier.Nice topic.
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.