"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Proverbs 31 woman

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,642
Reaction score
6,580
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
Very hard to look good as a man who's truly a christian. Obama is loved by the world just like a Joel Osteen is loved by the world.

Start acting like John the Baptist and see what happens. Some people will tolerate your outbursts but would rather you not talk about God at all.

Talk about being happy and making money and everyone will love you.
Jesus said that if you are a true follower of his, you WILL be persecuted. The world will hate you, as it hates him.

I always say that everyone wants to go to heaven as long as God’s not there.
 

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,642
Reaction score
6,580
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
...and you are 63 years old too? Well, guess there is plenty of time to find a Provebs 31 women, assuming the Rapture or a major event doesn't happen before November, 2020, in which case, this discussion is an interesting diversion. Are Proverbs 31 women cool with divorcees, or they only deal with widows and never married men?
If a man is divorced because of his wife’s adultery, he has a clean slate. Or if she deserted (divorced) him and there is absolutely no chance of reconciliation. I can’t help but think that if a woman turned out to be psycho and he just had to get away, there may be some leniency there, but as always it’s between him and God.
 

7onriverI f

Banned
Joined
Jan 31, 2020
Messages
604
Reaction score
288
Jesus said that if you are a true follower of his, you WILL be persecuted. The world will hate you, as it hates him.

I always say that everyone wants to go to heaven as long as God’s not there.
People will actively avoid you, try and annoy you, have you fired from jobs to avoid you, perhaps physically assault you. If your a big boy who looks a bit aggressive then perhaps they will avoid that route.
 

corrector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2009
Messages
10,401
Reaction score
4,069
If a man is divorced because of his wife’s adultery, he has a clean slate. Or if she deserted (divorced) him and there is absolutely no chance of reconciliation. I can’t help but think that if a woman turned out to be psycho and he just had to get away, there may be some leniency there, but as always it’s between him and God.
That sounds fair.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

corrector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2009
Messages
10,401
Reaction score
4,069
People will actively avoid you, try and annoy you, have you fired from jobs to avoid you, perhaps physically assault you. If your a big boy who looks a bit aggressive then perhaps they will avoid that route.
Or write nasty posts on here, like you need to see a shrink because you are too fanatical about Jesus or the Biblical mindset, or like @Good Gao , telling me to leave the board, lol! But again, anything on here is childsplay compared to real life.
 

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
The proverbs 31 woman is the one who enters your life when you're ready, and your situation is right.

But, things are soooo wrong, right now....financially, socially, etc.
 

corrector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2009
Messages
10,401
Reaction score
4,069
The proverbs 31 woman is the one who enters your life when you're ready, and your situation is right.

But, things are soooo wrong, right now....financially, socially, etc.
I know what you mean.
 

Lynx nkaf

Banned
Joined
Nov 17, 2019
Messages
1,863
Reaction score
1,221
Of course, but it's up to the people to follow through with it on the other 6 days. I don't feel just exposure to a 1 hour or brief gathering per week, then the rest of the day, and rest of the week, all the worldly values seeping in through co-workers, friends, family, social media, etc...
Even inside a church you can see women texting away or going on a social media app, etc.... Even if there is a message like that, (i.e proverbs 31), it may be only made once in a blue moon and on Mother's Day, or if there is a pre-marriage class or something like that.

My experience to date with church is not that type of carry-over community like you are suggesting. In fact, I don't know any church that is even like that. You have an ideal of what a church is supposed to be, and maybe it was like that in the Early church, but its certainly not like that today.
Oasis does good things outside of service time. None here yet that I know of.
 

Lynx nkaf

Banned
Joined
Nov 17, 2019
Messages
1,863
Reaction score
1,221
We assessed that most proverbs 31 women or self proclaimed proverbs 31 woman are talking shyt. They are the same self serving, selfish, control hungry and man hating as the rest of them. But yes a minority exists.

I use Michelle Obama as a good example of a good wife. A good wife helps you, makes you look good and your growth and influence is amplified.

I'm not a perfect man. Nor do i ever want to be. But im a great bf or husband. I'm someone who can enable her to grow vs go back and forth slowing each other down.
Mrs. Obama is a great lady.


Keep up the good work on your contributions too Mr. gs.
You will do well with new ladies in your life. Keep on being a good man, its worth it bud. 1b5c513c12696bb507f26f02dcb17a55.jpg
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Spaz

Banned
Joined
Jan 14, 2018
Messages
8,329
Reaction score
6,875
It is good that y'all know ur proverbs.

Do you all also know proverbs 22:29?

Before asking so many things or expectations from women, adhere to the above proverbs 1st.
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,582
Reaction score
11,942
Location
DFW, TX
Or write nasty posts on here, like you need to see a shrink because you are too fanatical about Jesus or the Biblical mindset, or like @Good Gao , telling me to leave the board, lol! But again, anything on here is childsplay compared to real life.
The excorcism video was extreme, i mean i want my kids to be safe and live reasonably "good", but not with that level of "constriction".
 

corrector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2009
Messages
10,401
Reaction score
4,069
The excorcism video was extreme, i mean i want my kids to be safe and live reasonably "good", but not with that level of "constriction".
My technical reply to this is that you probably didn't understand my reply to your OP. The video is exposing a demonic spirit associated with women being manipulative or horish, etc... and put a name and a face to it. There is lots of exorcism videos where "Jezebel" is exorcised out of women.

My heart-to-heart reply is that nothing about the true Jesus and His message in the NT Bible is popular. Lots of people turned away from Him (John 6:66 -- yeah 666 right?) People want a flavour of Christianity because it sounds good or it's better than the trash that's in the world, but reject Jesus, cherry-pick His teachings, and want to avoid persecution. Jesus said that broad is the way that leads to destruction, but narrow is the way to life, and few there by that find it. That means you have to live a certain standard of "constriction" or it's not true Christianity and you are in the broad road.

There are plenty of lukewarm churches out there that don't have the fire of God. If you had a true revelation from God then you would become born-again and your whole attitude on allot of issues even on here would change. So, while I can't say that listening to Bob Larson will get you there, I can say that there is something more out there that you have missed out on as it pertains to the reality of knowing Jesus personally and not just knowing OF Him historically. Each person has to seek this out individually.
 
Last edited:

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,582
Reaction score
11,942
Location
DFW, TX
My technical reply to this is that you probably didn't understand my reply to your OP. The video is exposing a demonic spirit associated with women being manipulative or horish, etc... and put a name and a face to it. There is lots of exorcism videos where "Jezebel" is exorcised out of women.

My heart-to-heart reply is that nothing about the true Jesus and His message in the NT Bible is popular. Lots of people turned away from Him (John 6:66 -- yeah 666 right?) People want a flavour of Christianity because it sounds good or it's better than the trash that's in the world, but reject Jesus, cherry-pick His teachings, and want to avoid persecution. Jesus said that broad is the way that leads to destruction, but narrow is the way to life, and few there by that find it. That means you have to live a certain standard of "constriction" or it's not true Christianity and you are in the broad road.

There are plenty of lukewarm churches out there that don't have the fire of God. If you had a true revelation from God then you would become born-again and your whole attitude on allot of issues even on here would change. So, while I can't say that listening to Bob Larson will get you there, I can say that there is something more out there that you have missed out on as it pertains to the reality of knowing Jesus personally and not just knowing OF Him historically. Each person has to seek this out individually.
Jezebel spirit is real but most won't want to live like that guy.
 
Last edited:

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,582
Reaction score
11,942
Location
DFW, TX
...and you are 63 years old too? Well, guess there is plenty of time to find a Provebs 31 women, assuming the Rapture or a major event doesn't happen before November, 2020, in which case, this discussion is an interesting diversion. Are Proverbs 31 women cool with divorcees, or they only deal with widows and never married men?
I'd imagine, that they examine you and your spirit. So it's really not their job to be on a pedestal anyway. A proverbs 31 woman is wise because she is a "help mate". It doesn't mean she can't achieve things in life, she can! Simply not at the expense of her man.
 

metalwater

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 23, 2019
Messages
1,606
Reaction score
1,330
Location
random
With the insanity in the world if the Christian churches could build and encourage Proverbs 31 wives it would be a great reason to wait to get married. https://avirtuouswoman.org/10-virtues-of-the-proverbs-31-woman/
Nice topic.

this link is some girl ideas from the similar viewpoints.

 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,582
Reaction score
11,942
Location
DFW, TX
I'd imagine, that they examine you and your spirit. So it's really not their job to be on a pedestal anyway. A proverbs 31 woman is wise because she is a "help mate". It doesn't mean she can't achieve things in life, she can! Simply not at the expense of her man.
Imagine that, if they figured out it's actually better for them if their man is stronger and more capable instead of marginalizing him. ( You have this entity, that will
Nice topic.

this link is some girl ideas from the similar viewpoints.

Very good. Im not sure why women of this day and age have an issue investing in something that makes her life easier.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Top