"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Protein powder which contains soy isolate

shaunuk

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I've just been sold a protein powder at the gym called Provit 85. This supplement is a mixture of different protein types, and contains; whey protein hydrolysate, egg protein and soy protein isolate. It's the soy isolate content that concerns me. There's a lot of controversy over whether soy's phytoestrogens lead to increased estrogen levels in men and also decreased testosterone levels.

The back of the tub suggests 2-3 scoops per day, each scoop containing approximately 30g of the mix of proteins.

Is this powder suitable for guys? Is the (possible) rise in estrogen levels of any significance at all?

cheers,
-shaun
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warboss Alex

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shaunuk said:
I've just been sold a protein powder at the gym called Provit 85. This supplement is a mixture of different protein types, and contains; whey protein hydrolysate, egg protein and soy protein isolate. It's the soy isolate content that concerns me. There's a lot of controversy over whether soy's phytoestrogens lead to increased estrogen levels in men and also decreased testosterone levels.

The back of the tub suggests 2-3 scoops per day, each scoop containing approximately 30g of the mix of proteins.

Is this powder suitable for guys? Is the (possible) rise in estrogen levels of any significance at all?

cheers,
-shaun
you'll find lots of pro-veggie types touting it as safe to drink but in reality it's not. soy in that amount is not meant for male consumption. even the vegan bodybuilders I know prefer pea protein over soy. unless you want ***** tits, I would personally throw it out.

(cue a lot of 162lb guys saying "it's fine it's fine")
 

shaunuk

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Right, right, gotcha bud :) Cheers for the answer

When I'm back in the gym on monday I'll ask to swap it with a non-soy containing supplement. Hell, I didn't even read the front of the tub properly - I'll just stick with whey :).

cheers,
-shaun
 
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