"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Protection or not? her opinion is:

slickaz

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I been seeing this muslim chic.

she's was a virgin, until she met me.

she was saving it for her husband coz of the culture but i guess i played the game right and one night she just stayed over and **** got beautiful..lol.

anyway first time in i didnt use protection that night coz we werent meant to have s3x, we were kissing and ended up in bed and i guess i didnt think about wrapping the monkey.

half hour later, we were at it again, she initiated. and this time i said ill hit it after i have a shower so i had a shower and on my way back i picked up rubber from the lounge safety box.

so i hit it again with it, this time wrapped up.

she seemed to love it.

she later said that she preferred it without protection because she could feel it good inside and with protection it felt like rubber banging her.

she's not on the pill either.. I KNOW RISKY N STUPID I KNOW..but i as lovin the booty..

her gf now is pregnant because she didnt use protection and muslim hb is now very worried.

now to be honest i like not using rubber, but i want to, to be safe.

how do you get around that difference? of using rubber vs not?
and what about making it better for her?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WC2

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As much as I hate the rubber as well, USE it if she's not on birth control.

I have a few horror stories about friends who got chicks pregnant. Best case scenario, you end up paying a boatload for an abortion. Worst case.. well I think you know that one.

Why don't you tell her to get on the pill?

While the pill isn't exactly 100%, I like my chances of the combination of the pill+pulling out.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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I've avoided condoms many times...and I don't recommend you be like me in that way. Yea, I pull out, and never got a girl pregnant. I've also came inside a girl who wasn't on birth control because it was right before her period. It was hot.

But don't do it. Even if a girl says she's on birth control, wrap it up.
 

Leporello

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I've been stupid a few times and done chicks without protection. Afterward I'm always holding my breath until the next period.

IF you pull out at the right time it's usually pretty effective...but you can never be totally sure of that, can you?

As it happens, the pill is more effective than condoms, fyi. But in her case it may be hard to go on the pill without her family knowing it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Poonani Maker

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I tried the Magnum Large Trojan and it's too small. I guess that means I'm getting bigger. Cut all the o2 off. Ouch.
 

Dannyrt34

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Use condoms budy. Don't be stupid, how can you honestly think better sex that lasts anywhere from 1 minute to 1 hour be worth basically crashing your dreams and future for the next 18 years?

I use a condom even when she is on the pill. But I have a hard time trusting things I can't see.
 

bam bam

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there are two holes go for the other one! :p

i always have sex with condoms so i can't relate...
 

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Just get a vasectomy, then you can have all the unprotected sex you want and not worry about getting her pregnant.
 

NewMan

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The feeling of sex without a rubber is fantastic - to be sure.

The feeling of having to pay child support for 18 yrs - not so good.

It's really no decision.

wrap yourself everytime.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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