"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pros and cons on the Abdo Board

MidnightResistance

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I went a little crazy on the abdo board yesterday. I forced myself to do 300 sit ups. I got to 100 and the strain was there, got to 200 and I was screaming, then got to 250 and it seemed to ease off...died from exhaustion at 300.

I woke up this morning and have gained incredible definition just overnight (although I did eat well yesterday).
The downside is that on my abdo board I rubbed a blister. On my arse!
Right in the crack, on the left hand side. It's about the size of my thumb. It burst when I got out of bed.
Holy Sh1t!:eek: That Hurt.

I want to do more considering the rate of definition, but my arse says no. Has anyone else experienced blistering and how do you overcome it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MidnightResistance

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I take it from the number of views to replies, that I am alone here..
alone with my arse :(
 

King of You

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i duno wtf an abdo board is. post a pic or something so we can see how this contraption works.

Prolly doesnt do **** if your able to pump out 300 reps without any prior abdominal training.

try doing 300 crunches i bet you couldnt even do 50.

just my 2 dollas.
 

MidnightResistance

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It's a sit up board at a 45-degree angle.

It's not easy.
Normally I only do 100 on the thing.
Like I said, I went crazy this time.
 

Warboss Alex

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Don't see the point of doing 100 of anything, let alone 300.. build your abs up and lower your bodyfat to the point where you don't NEED to do anything to have good definition.

Most ab equipment is sh!te anyway.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MidnightResistance

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I have low bodyfat everywhere, but my stomach.
How do I lose it from there?
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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i think i need to lose some body fat, well i have worked on my abbs before but staretd again 5 weeks ago, other then 10 days half wya through when i was on holiday, theres definition on the outside and can start to see some seprate bumps slightly but i would not call it a 6 pack yet!
 
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Actually, reps of 50 are good a couple of days after you train a specific body part. Helps with active recovery. However, that is really advanced training.

Calves can be worked with high reps. Nothing wrong with that at all.
 

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What a waste of time and money.

I'm going to guess you want to achieve that 6-pack. You're not going to get that through "spot" exercise. You can only get that through a proper diet and all around exercise.

Indeed once you reach a bodyfat percentage of your body 5-8%, you might even have a 6-pack, and if you don't that's when situps really shine.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
What a waste of time and money.

I'm going to guess you want to achieve that 6-pack. You're not going to get that through "spot" exercise. You can only get that through a proper diet and all around exercise.

Indeed once you reach a bodyfat percentage of your body 5-8%, you might even have a 6-pack, and if you don't that's when situps really shine.
Actually, situps are the worst type of ab exersize you can do for you ab developement.they put too much off a strain on your lower back.

I am not sure what " all around exercise" means. Perhaps cardio work..kinda incomprehendable??

It really depends on how many fat cells the individual has..not necessarily bodyfat percentage.

Perhaps, you could educate yourself further before making ass out of your self. triing to insult and critique others in their posts.
 

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Anything that rubs a BLISTER ON YOUR ASS is not good in my book.

btw, an "abdo board" sounds like a ****ing scam. I have in incline/decline bench that can go on a 45 degree angle, that I can do seated shoulder presses on, incline db presses on, that I can do bench presses on, and that I can do you abdo decline crunches on. Plus it's got this leg extension thing.

Yessir, you got scammed.
 
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