"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pros and cons of looking older?

Gan

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Can't decide if this is a good thing or a bad thing. I'm 21. I've been told by 2 girls within a month that I look older than my age. One of them said I looked 27, the other one 30. I can assure you my face does not look aged lol.

I'd probably take it as an insult if I was maybe past my 30's, but at 21?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Would say age appearance matters less for men than women. Looking older will help you being the age you are. If you're acting like a real man about things as well, you're winning. I'm 34 but am consistently told mid-late twenties.

The biggest thing I think is staying in shape and eating fresh food. I hardly recognise some people I went to school with now, and I would make an educated guess that they've lived mostly on processed food their entire lives. Many are over-weight, have terrible complexions and no colour in their skin.

Stay in shape, eat well, dress sharp. If you can maintain that late twenties-early thirties look for as long as you can, you'll be fine.
 

Red Legg

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Looking older and having just a touch of grey in my beard has gotten me laid more than at any point in my life...and with younger women.
 
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