"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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my thread that had nothing to do with looks and everything to do with inner game got locked......is simply USING the word "looks" in the thread title improper and breaks the ***** rules of the forum?

my thread was meant to help AFCs see the way and realize that how you FEEL on the inside is the most important aspect of getting women, and it got locked

good job mods

link to thread im referring to

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=135076
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Like it or not guys, you HAVE to pass a womans looks test to get a chance with her. Its as simple as that. Doesn't mean you have to be good looking, just means she has to like what she sees.

No amount of confidence, intelligence, social status, money or anything else means a thing if she can't get past your looks...
 

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Nope I think the ps3 is more hype then anything I mean the only game on the console that is worth getting is Uncharted. But then again it does have the BR capability so that might sway me to get one unless HDDVD wins or the BR standalone players go lower.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I have a boner roffles.




No seirously man, I started a thread about Korean girls and it gets closed because it was too race oriented. I was like "aight." But at least it was about picking up women you know. I see these bullsh1t threads like "what hat should i wear" and retarded stuff like that live on. What gives?

Lord, just take me now....TAKE ME NOW!!!!

But first give me ps3 and wii, and 360. And I will join the kingdom of the clouds, or is it mushrooms?
 

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There was nothing wrong with your initial post. However, it was spinning into yet another looks vs personality thread, and we've had plenty of those in the last few days.

Moved to AE...
 

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Desdinova said:
There was nothing wrong with your initial post. However, it was spinning into yet another looks vs personality thread, and we've had plenty of those in the last few days.

Moved to AE...
I could see that too. I've had a handful of threads closed because they had gotten derailed into themes which were against policy. Best bet is to actively monitor the thread and keep it on course, let it run away and it can fall victim of getting closed. It's just the nature of the beast.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Desdinova said:
Remember a few months back when a thread would develope the Wyldfire syndrome after she posted in it? It's pretty much the same thing.
The "Wyldfire Syndrome?" Wasn't there a paper recently published in The Annals of Psychiatry" about that?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't generally play console games, or games of any sort much. I hear the Orange Box is amazingly good though. Anyone tried it?
 

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I'm a HM8 - 8.5
 
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