"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Proposing something sexual but making it look like she has to work for it

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Shivastorm_88

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I'm going to play Tennis with this girl as soon as my ankle gets better (sprained ankle is a *****) and I was thinking of proposing something to her in the lines of: If you play well today (not skill-wise, but by putting effort and all) I'll do something nice (won't tell her right away though I'll make her linger) and the better she plays, the better is what she'll get

I was thinking this could be good on many levels, since the massage becomes something that she has earned, not something that I willingly offer, and also if she plays along, she's basically following my league and jumping in a nice hoop I created... However, do you guys see a big possibility it could backfire and she blows me off when I tell her that, doesn't take it seriously or whatnot? I don't want to kill me chances to hook up with her
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"Awww, how cute? This guy is going to do something nice for me....we'll make great friends."

Good concept man, but I'd suggest a rephrase. Don't mention the word nice, but instead come up with something ****y and funny that challenges her.
 
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runner83 said:
"Awww, how cute? This guy is going to do something nice for me....we'll make great friends."

Good concept man, but I'd suggest a rephrase. Don't mention the word nice, but instead come up with something ****y and funny that challenges her.
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Makes sense, although I wouldn't think one word could have such a big impact, I could think of a better way to introduce it...

Thanks!
 
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