"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Proposing something sexual but making it look like she has to work for it

Shivastorm_88

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I'm going to play Tennis with this girl as soon as my ankle gets better (sprained ankle is a *****) and I was thinking of proposing something to her in the lines of: If you play well today (not skill-wise, but by putting effort and all) I'll do something nice (won't tell her right away though I'll make her linger) and the better she plays, the better is what she'll get

I was thinking this could be good on many levels, since the massage becomes something that she has earned, not something that I willingly offer, and also if she plays along, she's basically following my league and jumping in a nice hoop I created... However, do you guys see a big possibility it could backfire and she blows me off when I tell her that, doesn't take it seriously or whatnot? I don't want to kill me chances to hook up with her
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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runner83

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"Awww, how cute? This guy is going to do something nice for me....we'll make great friends."

Good concept man, but I'd suggest a rephrase. Don't mention the word nice, but instead come up with something ****y and funny that challenges her.
 

Shivastorm_88

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runner83 said:
"Awww, how cute? This guy is going to do something nice for me....we'll make great friends."

Good concept man, but I'd suggest a rephrase. Don't mention the word nice, but instead come up with something ****y and funny that challenges her.
Makes sense, although I wouldn't think one word could have such a big impact, I could think of a better way to introduce it...

Thanks!
 
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