"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Proposal to all those tired of "She looked at me, does she like me" threads

donjuan87

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I have a proposal to those who moderate this fine site:

Please erase immediately all threads that are somewhere along the lines of "she looked my way in class today, is she hot for me?"

I, and many others on this great site, are getting tired of all the newbie posts asking stupid questions. Someone (I forget who) said it seems like this board is suffering from an invasion of AFCs.
IT IS TRUE!

Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't this site for fine-tuning your game, not asking stupid AFC questions?

It seems like alot of the great members posting great stuff are jumping ship because this board is being swamped by AFCs. Honestly, I don't want to lose all the fine members who do so much to help us fledgling DJs to improve our game.

Frankly, if the AFC invasion isn't stopped, it will possibly kill this site. :( I think I am speaking for many of the members when I voice my concerns for the future of this powerful tool for DJs.

I know my game has improved leaps and bounds since finding this great website less than a month ago.

Please, stem the tide of the AFC post invasion.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Centaurion

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Only Diablo activly moderates this site, the rest of moderaters are busy circle-jerking eachother in the mod section.

Unfortunatly it's not enough.
 

JonJack

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I believe it is going to be quite difficult to follow through with what you're proposing.

Firstly, a lot of those people who post the AFCish threads will be pretty pissed that their attempt at seeking advice are thrown out in an instant.

It really can't get any clearer than having a sticky with 'reading the DJ Bible' being the first thing that new people to this board should do.

Of course the moderators could choose to delete those threads that are totally clueless. But that'll depend on how strict they want to be.

Personally, I just read those AFCish posts and either point out that it's flawed to ask such pointless questions or I just don't respond whatsoever. It's not like I lose brain cells reading them so it's no real loss to me.
 

Duamutef

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Donjuan87... just let natural selection do its job. If the post is useless, it will naturally slip down in no time, leaving the important discussions like ''Brad Pitt is so hot OMG'' and ''I'll do 100'000 approaches, please compliment me, I've got no life'' get their place on top.

We could call it 'Discussion Forum Darwinism'...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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