Proper way to game a woman who might be using me to get citizenship.

[AJ84]

Ok, I have a first date with a 26 year old Brasilian woman who I met on OLD who already has really high interest and we havent even met, which is a red flag. I am 39 years old. I set up a date and she said she has been in this country for only 8 months, she speaks English, doesnt have a car. I told her I would pick her up at her place (probably lives with other people, not sure), and we will go to a place a few blocks down from my house. I am looking to go straight for the 1st date bang. I am going to wrap my **** up real tight, cant risk impregnating this bish. Whats the best way to string this chick along, use her for sex, then dump. What are your experiences with chicks like these. Do they go crazy come to your house looking for you when you dump them?

I would say most likely she is seeing other men and will continue to do that. She's fishing in a pond and will take what bites to get that citizenship. Women like that are all business and she likely won't be placing all of her bets on you.

Enjoy but wear a condom.

 

[CBear]

He said the exact same thing i said: the only difference is you were not OPEN MINDED enough to listen to me when i told you the same thing.

Sometimes, ignorance is bliss.

Yeah, not being open minded to you when I never disagreed with you
& yeah, I definitely saw him accusing me of shoving my current thinking down someone's throat and assuming behind a computer screen that I'm brainwashed (he did it indirectly instead).
I actually opened my mind with the way he approached this situation. Hopefully you notice the difference.
Ignorance is bliss

 

[CBear]

of course you disagreed with me, here i will show you where:



Seems like you don’t even realize when you’re agreeing or disagreeing with someone lmao

Looks like you havent figured out what exactly your standpoint is, and when you do if you’re ready to have a mature discussion about topics that may sometimes affect people’s lives quite a bit, let us know.

I've considered your views. Guru added a sociological element that made those views and "moral views" in general clearer. I told you that while I'm not going to say that you're wrong or that I'm right, I might very well have the same mindset eventually. Nontheless, I appreciate all the responses, it did open my mind, besides some of the comments towards the end of each reply. Thanks and good luck!

 

[Spaz]

I’m not surprsised that you are disappointed with my response.. were u expecting me to advise the OP to plan marriage and having kids with a woman he only wants to fvck and never see again?

That is his right and there’s nothing wrong with it. OP has a right to date whoever he wants, and to leave whoever he wants whenever he wants.

He thinks the woman may be using him for sponsorship, and i would agree this is her end goal.

If you want to propagate notions that men should follow YOUR moral code, i think this in itself is not the right mindset to have. Don’t force people to date women longer than they want to, slavery has been abolished or so i’m told.

I see you’re a don juan in training, you still have a lot of “dont treat women like that!” brainwashing that needs to be fixed.

^^This is the ideal mindset one should have.