Proper way to game a woman who might be using me to get citizenship.

[Mazer]

Ok, I have a first date with a 26 year old Brasilian woman who I met on OLD who already has really high interest and we havent even met, which is a red flag. I am 39 years old. I set up a date and she said she has been in this country for only 8 months, she speaks English, doesnt have a car. I told her I would pick her up at her place (probably lives with other people, not sure), and we will go to a place a few blocks down from my house. I am looking to go straight for the 1st date bang. I am going to wrap my **** up real tight, cant risk impregnating this bish. Whats the best way to string this chick along, use her for sex, then dump. What are your experiences with chicks like these. Do they go crazy come to your house looking for you when you dump them?

 

[wifehunter]

Wow, you sound like a quality guy.

 

[Serenity]

Do they go crazy come to your house looking for you when you dump them?

Some of them do, that's a risk you'll have to take if you decide to (literally and figuratively) fvck people over. Most people aren't particularly happy when they realize they've been taken advantage of, strung along and lied to.

I won't give you any advice on how to successfully be one of those guys I wish didn't exist, there's enough of these a$$holes on Earth already.

 

[Mazer]

Wow, you sound like a quality guy.

Thats your inner AFC talking. Tried that "quality" guy bit for a while. Would you believe it never got me laid?! Go figure.
I just treat hoes like they are hoes and sluts like they are sluts. No biggie and I don't feel guilty one bit and you know why, because these same women don't give a **** about you, just what you can do for them.

 

[wifehunter]

Thats your inner AFC talking. Tried that "quality" guy bit for a while. Would you believe it never got me laid?! Go figure.
I just treat hoes like their hoes and sluts like their sluts. No biggie and I don't feel guilty one bit.

If I had a daughter, I woundn't let you anywhere near her.

 

[CBear]

Thats your inner AFC talking. Tried that "quality" guy bit for a while. Would you believe it never got me laid?! Go figure.
I just treat hoes like they are hoes and sluts like they are sluts. No biggie and I don't feel guilty one bit and you know why, because these same women don't give a **** about you, just what you can do for them.

Don't you want to be better than that though? yes, many of them are hoes who don't give a sh*t but I don't think that should warrant you turning from a quality guy in general to a scumbag who uses them and tosses them out. Be better. A man doesn't do that.

Anyways, just have fun. You'll see how she is when ya'll have your date.

 

[CBear]

brazilians are easy, they will fvck you on a first date whether they need sponsorship or not.

However, ALL foreign women who come here without PR status/citizenship are looking to get married so they can get their papers. They will do all kinds of dirty things to get those papers. Enjoy!

It will be up to you to gauge whether you want to marry this woman (I'm assuming because she's 36 and can't have kids and you seem to just want to fvck her this is not the case). If your mind changes, prepare to be used as an ATM and then promptly dumped as soon as the woman obtains said papers. So just have fun while the ride lasts.

Not sure why all the criticism of the OP, he's just asking us for advice on how to fvck a girl he has no intention of marrying, which is pretty much what the vast majority of us come here for.

The nice guys get the scraps - and the nice guys in this thread ("how can you just use girls like that and throw them out!") are all too obvious. It's quite a rude awakening when some men realize that women won't think twice about throwing you out when something "better" comes along..

Not criticising, in fact I'm all for him having fun and fvcking on the first date. I just don't believe that "I've never met her but she seems really interested in me so I'll just fvck her and never talk to her again" is the right mindset going into that lmao.

 

[Serenity]

What's wrong with just wanting to fvck a girl and never wanting to see her again?

Nothing...

Why hate on a guy who's honest about not wanting to put up with the usual girl bs after fvcking her?

...except most of the time the guy is far from honest about it and makes up bullsh!t to get in her pants.

Also, a minor correction here. She's 26.

the fact that this prospect is 36

 

[Spaz]

Ok, I have a first date with a 26 year old Brasilian woman who I met on OLD who already has really high interest and we havent even met, which is a red flag. I am 39 years old. I set up a date and she said she has been in this country for only 8 months, she speaks English, doesnt have a car. I told her I would pick her up at her place (probably lives with other people, not sure), and we will go to a place a few blocks down from my house. I am looking to go straight for the 1st date bang. I am going to wrap my **** up real tight, cant risk impregnating this bish. Whats the best way to string this chick along, use her for sex, then dump. What are your experiences with chicks like these. Do they go crazy come to your house looking for you when you dump them?

It all boils down to your frame.

I say go for it but be reminded, in this field, women are masters and has been trained from young by their mothers, sisters, aunts and every other women out there on how to best manipulate men.

Their pvssy is their commodity and they know this.

Good luck !

 

[Masculinity]

I'm willing to wager a significant sum of money that this situation won't end well.

 

[Spaz]

I'm willing to wager a significant sum of money that this situation won't end well.

If she's good, it won't end well for OP.

 

[ohrein]

Thats your inner AFC talking. Tried that "quality" guy bit for a while. Would you believe it never got me laid?! Go figure.
I just treat hoes like they are hoes and sluts like they are sluts. No biggie and I don't feel guilty one bit and you know why, because these same women don't give a **** about you, just what you can do for them.

There's nothing AFC about being quality. You're confusing wimpy nice guy who buys flowers with a man who treats someone with respect and stands up for what he believes in. Being a garbage human being who treats people like garbage is not something to aspire to. I used to be bitter like that and believe me, you can be better than that.

 

[sosousage]

Wow, you sound like a quality guy.

umm no, she wants to use him for citizenship and preferably some providing. not sure what attitude u want OP to have.

 

[CBear]

What's wrong with just wanting to fvck a girl and never wanting to see her again?

Half if not more of all the girls fvcked by dudes on this site are never seen of again.. and for very good reason. Why hate on a guy who's honest about not wanting to put up with the usual girl bs after fvcking her?

It's as if no one has ever identified red flags making a guy not want to be with a girl long term, yet thye're not quite bad enough to prevent him from wanting to **** her just one time and one time only

Personally for me, the fact that this prospect is 36 enough for me to label her a one fvck only, unless she reveals herself to be an extremely high quality woman.

She's 26 and I stand by my statement that it's not the right mindset to have. My opinion.

I gotta say bradd, as someone who has read your guide and found sosuave through you, I'm truly disappointed with these responses. Can't deny h0es are h0es...BUT I know guys that do this and not only are they scumbags with women, they're scumbags in general. Worst part is that their self esteem is not all there. They get intimidated super easily.

As other posters said, if she comes to his place and he fvcks and dumps her, she knows where he lives...

 

[sosousage]

she knows where he lives...

are you scared of one girl?

 

[CBear]

are you scared of one girl?

Lol yeah bro, I'm scared of chicks.
This is more me worrying about him if he doesn't handle this well. Aka, handle it well!

 

[CBear]

I’m not surprsised that you are disappointed with my response.. were u expecting me to advise the OP to plan marriage and having kids with a woman he only wants to fvck and never see again?

That is his right and there’s nothing wrong with it. OP has a right to date whoever he wants, and to leave whoever he wants whenever he wants.

He thinks the woman may be using him for sponsorship, and i would agree this is her end goal.

If you want to propagate notions that men should follow YOUR moral code, i think this in itself is not the right mindset to have. Don’t force people to date women longer than they want to, slavery has been abolished or so i’m told.

I see you’re a don juan in training, you still have a lot of “dont treat women like that!” brainwashing that needs to be fixed.

Yes I am a don juan in training and always will be because you will never stop learning from life's experiences.

I will lay this to rest and won't tell you that you're wrong or that I'm right because I might very well think like you in a couple of years.

However, to assume that I am trying to force my beliefs on guys or that I am some beta who cares about women without knowing me seems ridiculous to me because my belief about his mindset stems WAY BEYOND women. Makes ME assume that you were looking at this as black and white as if I was caring about this woman. No (fvck her lmao), this is about him and the way he thinks because I've thought like this before. Got me places but I wasn't satisfied or happy with myself. That seemingly black and white thinking and the assumptions is what I'm really disappointed in. You're opinion though

I am here to learn and believe this is a journey for every man here. No tension needed, just thought provoking debates to get others to understand and react to a similar or a little different side.

Op can go for it, I look forward to hearing how it went and the aftermath. All the best.

 

[guru1000]

Not criticising, in fact I'm all for him having fun and fvcking on the first date. I just don't believe that "I've never met her but she seems really interested in me so I'll just fvck her and never talk to her again" is the right mindset going into that lmao.

Always, remember, most of your beliefs are social constructs, to which you were indoctrinated to believe distinguishes right from wrong.

When you perceive things from a macro perspective and look deeper, you become aware there is neither "right" nor "wrong". There are only perceptions. Choose to perceive things in a way that serve your agenda, as opposed to serving social constructs--others' agendas--that may or may not serve you.

 

[CBear]

You’re the one with the black and white thinking: you’re telling OP he is wrong and that he should be more in line with YOUR moral code.

Talk about the pot calling the kettle black..

You just don't realize that I'm open to thoughts. Not black and white! I said I don't think the mindset is right, doesn't mean it's wrong. Also if you can look back and find where I specifically said that he should follow my moral code because I'm always right, I'd appreciate that.

I stated my morals in a way and why it would make me feel better, I never shoved it down his throat and told him that he must obey that.

I tried and tried but the way you're perceiving this is extremely flawed. You're trying to turn what I said upside down for whatever reason.

 

[CBear]

Choose to perceive things in a way that serve your agenda, as opposed to serving social constructs--others' agendas--that may or may not serve you.

That's a good way of looking at it!

See this is what I hoped to get out of this, not a pointless argument.

Thanks a lot!