"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Proper SLEEP!!! (And effects on acne and general health)

milesman

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Hey guys. I wanted to contribute my experience with sleep and how it affects your gains from lifting and ESPECIALLY your skin. I think Jonwon certainly was right with his thread that acne often times is an internally based (hormonal) disease and I've quietly tried my own experiments with B5 (I take 1 gram/day because it does keep the oil down) and other supplements. I've also spent probably at least a few thousand dollars in my lifetime on experimenting with topical products and procedures, rx, special diets etc.

Nothing, I repeat, NOTHING has smoothed my complexion out and prevented breakouts better than proper sleep. And here's the kicker, just getting 8 hours (for me...and others I've heard) isn't the complete answer. *WHEN* one goes to sleep determines how efficiently your body repairs itself. Personally, I've been a night guy for years. Since college (when I started trying Proactiv and accutane etc) I was a 1 or 2am till noon sleeper. Always would fight with bumps and I tried damn near EVERYTHING: Vegan diets, no dairy, sleeping on my back, facials, no grains, scaling back on workouts, Alpha Lipoic Acid, a billion OTCs, Retin-A...you name it. It hit me like a ROCK a few weeks ago when I recalled the FEW times my face was smooth and I had extra energy. It was when I went to bed (comparitively) early and got up earlier. WOW have the results been fantastic. I had to start taking a Lunesta rx pill to aid me in changing my nightly sleep habit but now go to bed at around 11pm and wake up around 8-9am (I still need a lot of sleep from lifting hard). What I've read (and feel) is that your body heals itself at effectively twice its normal rate while asleep during its "primetime" hours of 10pm-2am.


Also, my stamina in the gym has noticeably improved. I've always had a lot of power in my legs but I'm now doing (after warmups) 2 sets of 20 squats @ 315 and was maxing (3 or 4 reps) at around 360ish (though Im sure i could go higher) and I'm 6'0 180. I feel ferocious in the gym. :rockon:

Also the psychological effects from acknowledging Circadian rhythms (google it) and going to bed closer to sunset/rising at sunrise will have you refreshed all day and I've noticed increased confidence from my 'glow', my "I workout" swag (I 100% co-sign Pook's legendary post women's responses to a man's physique/weight) and an increased desire to handle business efficiently (bills, meetings, etc).

Certainly, sleep has done my body good and I wanted to pass this on to my fellow Dons who want to improve their overall health. Sosuave is good :yes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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spesmilitis

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Why does the time at which you sleep change the quality of sleep?
 

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spesmilitis said:
Why does the time at which you sleep change the quality of sleep?
It has something to do with the sun's rays.
 

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What works for one person could be radically different from another.

Personally speaking, if I sleep more than 6 hours (7 is pushing it) a day, I feel like sh1t for the remainder of the day. If I go to bed early, like around 10 or 11, and wake up at the crack of dawn, I end up suffering from severe depression for upwards of 3-4 days following. I nearly flunked out of high-school because I couldn't deal with it, and I could never hold a first shift job for more than a week. The depression gets THAT bad.

It's been like this for over 17 years. I tried third shift jobs, and couldn't handle that either. It has to be 4 or 5 am to bed, 10-11 am wakeup. Anything else, and I'm thrown out of whack.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Skilla_Staz

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Time of day doesn't really matter from what I gather. Sure, the sun may cause you to want to "wake up", but if you're in a completely dark room, it doesn't matter. All that matters is being consistent with your sleep. Once you get used to going to bed at the same time, you will fall asleep easier, quicker, and get into the sleep cycle with less difficulty then if you had a sporadic sleeping schedule.

Want more sleep? Go to bed 15 minutes earlier than normal. Do this for about a week. Then, 15 minutes earlier than that (30 minutes). Do this for about a week at a time, until you feel that you're getting at least 8 hours of sleep.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
you feel that you're getting at least 8 hours of sleep.
Until you feel? We have clocks nowadays... you can actually measure it.
 

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i don't usually note the time that i fall asleep, especially when i'm having trouble falling asleep.
 

PRMoon

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I sleep a maximum of 5 hours a night. Typically i get 4 hours or less. I work 7 days a week, since early january. If I sleep longer then 6 hours a night, I will be fatigued for the duration of the day and often feel tired after longer periods of sleep. My complextion is clear and my strength is as good as it's ever been.

I remember in one of my college classes reading that you need increasingly less sleep as you age, however even at my advanced age of 26 (hahaha) 4 hours of sleep is still low on that scale. I will note however my diet and water consumption do assist me in my energy levels.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i find it hard to sleep, i lift weights 3-4x a week, but i onli get around 7 houors of sleep, i want to be gettin around 9. plus the protein shake i have just before bed makes me piss 2-3 times a night. this will be breaking my sleep cycle as your body repairs itself best during REM (rapid eye movement) phase which usually takes about 45mins into ur sleep.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Until you feel? We have clocks nowadays... you can actually measure it.
You got me...

However, I also don't keep precise time measurements of when I got to bed and when I wake up. So I guess you'll have to go based on estimations. You'll also be able to "feel" the increased amounts of sleep...
 

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Wow! They have clocks now?

I still use a stick and place it inside a circle and then I watch it the shadow of the stick tells me the time of day but it don't work to well when it's cloudy guess I'm still ol' school.

LoneSilver
 

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milesman, I totally agree with you! It does make a difference when I sleep, and getting a good night's sleep is esential for your immune system.
 

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I usually hit 56 hours a week

tuesdays and thursday I get about 6 and the day after I get about 10
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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