"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dj_jazzybrad

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"lol haha you're funny"
comment on myspace

this is only like the 3rd comment from her, just met her a few days ago. Got her number too but i don't text and she commented me first. I just haven't said anything; I was thinking that a ****y response to a compliment would be a little too ****y? Thoughts?

And btw I'm not flirting with matt damon, I just doubt she'd like her face on a forum about seducing women, haha :flowers:

Edit: can't embed pics, lame ):
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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619joe

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You know,not everything you say has to be fancy schmancy don juan so suave talk.

You have her complimenting you,so just reward her with a "thanks i appreciate it".You already have her showing interest so no need to **** it up by going overly ****y when you dont even know her much.Just keep it simple brah
 

Triple T

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*sigh*
People over think the most simplest things. Just go with the flow, say what you want. It doesn't matter that much, don't focus on every little thing.

Sure you'll make mistakes, but you'll learn fast won't you?
Soon everything will come naturally and you won't think twice about saying something ever again.

Confidence my friend, have confidence. :up:
 

dj_jazzybrad

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All right, thanks guys :up:
just what i was thinking. I realize now that you're right, I am over analyzing... I'm workin on that though ;)
thanks again.
 

SinJester

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Haha Triple T and 619 have this covered! You don't need the perfect answer to everything.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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