"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dj_jazzybrad

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"lol haha you're funny"
comment on myspace

this is only like the 3rd comment from her, just met her a few days ago. Got her number too but i don't text and she commented me first. I just haven't said anything; I was thinking that a ****y response to a compliment would be a little too ****y? Thoughts?

And btw I'm not flirting with matt damon, I just doubt she'd like her face on a forum about seducing women, haha :flowers:

Edit: can't embed pics, lame ):
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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619joe

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You know,not everything you say has to be fancy schmancy don juan so suave talk.

You have her complimenting you,so just reward her with a "thanks i appreciate it".You already have her showing interest so no need to **** it up by going overly ****y when you dont even know her much.Just keep it simple brah
 

Triple T

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*sigh*
People over think the most simplest things. Just go with the flow, say what you want. It doesn't matter that much, don't focus on every little thing.

Sure you'll make mistakes, but you'll learn fast won't you?
Soon everything will come naturally and you won't think twice about saying something ever again.

Confidence my friend, have confidence. :up:
 

dj_jazzybrad

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All right, thanks guys :up:
just what i was thinking. I realize now that you're right, I am over analyzing... I'm workin on that though ;)
thanks again.
 

SinJester

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Haha Triple T and 619 have this covered! You don't need the perfect answer to everything.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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