"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Proper introduction?

NotaNewbie

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Say its a party or dinner where you're invited by a 3rd party, and you a see an HB when you're introducing your self do you shake hands, hug, kiss, or what? What do you do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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baurman

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Most people will shake hands. However, I like to hug and kiss on the cheek.
 

ready123

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I just shake hands but all those are acceptable if they're congruent to your personality
 

Charm&Style

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what ever you do don't approach her with some lame azz line kids through around here. like a civilized professional make eye contact and approach her just to be introduced to each other. once that happens bring no negativity to the convo. no one cares if your xar broke down, your cat died, or etc. you are a positive man on the verge to tremendous success. let her talk while you charm her. ofcourse come in touch with her and bring sexuality into the convo.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Is there a couch nearby that you can bend her over?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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