So you would think at my age I would have figured this out but
I still run into walls after having sex with girl.
It usually goes something like this:
Meet girl through friends, work, bar etc. Some I've known
for a day, some a couple weeks, few a couple months, etc before sex.. So they are not all, just met, ONS situations.
Problem is most start pulling away after sex. The ones I like, I will
attempt to make contact, be nice, etc. and they end up pulling away. I tried acting
like I REALLY like them, tried acting aloof, tried something in between.. I feel like I'm all
over the place and just need to always be the same no matter what but am not sure
how I should be acting.
The ones I don't like, I blow them off. They usually attempt to contact me
and I really don't care so I never know or care what the turnout would be.
Before we ever had sex they have very high interest level. Even to the point where they
ask ME out, pay for my drinks, always touching me, etc. Then they seem
to pull away.
I guess what I'm saying is I can never say I'm "dating" someone
because I just never feel like I am. After banging them once to say 3 or 4 times it never
goes any further. I don't get it.
I'm to the point where I just feel like if they ever want to hang out, they can call me other wise I really
don't care and wont contact them at all until they CLEARLY demonstrate consistent high interest. But that can't be right either.
Ps (spare me the bad sex explanation, lets just assume for sake of argument its all good in that dept)
I still run into walls after having sex with girl.
It usually goes something like this:
Meet girl through friends, work, bar etc. Some I've known
for a day, some a couple weeks, few a couple months, etc before sex.. So they are not all, just met, ONS situations.
Problem is most start pulling away after sex. The ones I like, I will
attempt to make contact, be nice, etc. and they end up pulling away. I tried acting
like I REALLY like them, tried acting aloof, tried something in between.. I feel like I'm all
over the place and just need to always be the same no matter what but am not sure
how I should be acting.
The ones I don't like, I blow them off. They usually attempt to contact me
and I really don't care so I never know or care what the turnout would be.
Before we ever had sex they have very high interest level. Even to the point where they
ask ME out, pay for my drinks, always touching me, etc. Then they seem
to pull away.
I guess what I'm saying is I can never say I'm "dating" someone
because I just never feel like I am. After banging them once to say 3 or 4 times it never
goes any further. I don't get it.
I'm to the point where I just feel like if they ever want to hang out, they can call me other wise I really
don't care and wont contact them at all until they CLEARLY demonstrate consistent high interest. But that can't be right either.
Ps (spare me the bad sex explanation, lets just assume for sake of argument its all good in that dept)