"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Proof that no contact works.

Kbomb

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Think its bull. I mean how hard is it to check your email at an internet cafe?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alvafe

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Kbomb said:
Think its bull. I mean how hard is it to check your email at an internet cafe?
the same way its hard for me check my e-mails during holydays and weekends, I can spend my whole day over the internet but no way in hell I will look at my e-mail, holyday weekends is my time to relax and do things I couldn't during the week, and that means not lose time with e-mails
 

dudewut

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Kbomb said:
Think its bull. I mean how hard is it to check your email at an internet cafe?
He probably didnt even stop at internet cafes...you're a tourist so you walk around etc.
 

Quiksilver

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2 weeks is deep no contact :)

seems to work if you want her to go crazy and revenge-fvck your best friend.
 

omega05

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he didnt intentionally go no contact though and you guys make it seem like the purpose of going no contact is to move on to someone else so this isnt really a good example of how no contact works
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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