Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Proof Of Hypergamy!

taiyuu_otoko

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Oh the horrors!

Source: http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2014/03/03/hypergamy-cars-and-phone-numbers/

In a carefully controlled experiment (Guéguen and Lamy 2012), researchers tested the idea of how important status is to women. They placed men in expensive cars and instructed them to approach women and ask for their phone numbers. Then they had the men do the same thing in medium- and low-status cars.

The results? The men were successful 23.3 percent of the time when women saw them in a high-status car, 12.8 percent of the time when they drove a middle-status car, and 7.8 percent of the time when they drove a low-status car. Clearly, women are monitoring our status, and we’re acutely aware of that fact.
I've also read studies where men with babies are more successful than men with dogs who are more successful than men all by themselves.

Moral of the story?

Borrow yourself a couple kids and a high priced car and collect some numbers!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There was a Maxim article ten years ago that tested guys' approaches with expensive cars, babies, and puppies as props. Cars beat babies, but puppies won.
 

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Considering that they say a top level pickup artist is only successful 10% of the time, those are pretty good percentages. Even the low status guys didn't fare much worse.
 

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Honestly guys?

I dont know what we really learn from constantly posting this hypergamy stuff...

Of course woman want a man with a nice car, a big bank account, 6'2", etc...

They are all just fitness indicators, it is your biological imperative to mate with the best specimen you can.
 

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Why would a baby as a prop help? Isn't having a baby a minus to a woman as it means the man's resources are diverted away from her and any babies the man could have with her?

Or is it that a baby is proof of fitness? Another woman had the man's baby so he must be good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Demodulate said:
Honestly guys?

I dont know what we really learn from constantly posting this hypergamy stuff...

Of course woman want a man with a nice car, a big bank account, 6'2", etc...

They are all just fitness indicators, it is your biological imperative to mate with the best specimen you can.
My opening comment was a clue that my tongue was firmly in my cheek...

my personal belief is that girls move up the social and status ladder (hypergamy) as automatically and subconsciously as guys stare at younger girls with firm boobies....

kind of self evident

But speaking of hypergamy, my favorite quote on the subject comes from Matt Ridleys' "The Red Queen":

The problem with human sexual relationships is this: Girls are genetically programmed to want older, wealthy, powerful men. Guys are genetically programmed to want younger, attractive women. Problem is most guys aren't wealthy and powerful, and most girls aren't young and attractive.
 
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