Proof of how a woman works

[Cabal]

A friend of mine has been texting a girl with a boyfriend (I called him on it, but also begrudgingly admitted no girl can be stolen who doesn't want to be).

Real sexually charged stuff.

Then he did a drunken 'opening up' text about feelings and **** like that.

Her response was how dare he send her stuff like that and she'd told her boyfriend and he was furious and was going to kick his head in.

The moment she knew she had him for keeps, she didn't want him, and was so disgusted by him she decided he should be kicked in. Until then she was happy to talk about ****ing his brains out behind her boyfriends back.

Remember; guard the attraction as if it were your life. Once you lose it, it's over.

 

[MM92]

Yep, you are right. I hope your mate gets his head kicked in though, the prick deserves it.

 

[Shockwavedave]

Yep, you are right. I hope your mate gets his head kicked in though, the prick deserves it.

Could have been the girl instigating it though

 

[cablecow15]

I always new people who preferred going after taken girls , just because they were the only girls they knew , and they were to p@nsy to go meet new ones

 

[MisterD]

They were both at fault. Trying to game another man's chick is not my thing, and flirting with a guy when you're taken is low class.

That being said--yes; some girls like the thrill of the dance. But once the chase ends, their interest dies. Once she knew for sure how he felt it wasn't a game/chase anymore. He became a creep in her eyes.

 

[JohnChops]

guess verbalizing your feelings is the wrong thing to do

 

[GhengisT]

guess verbalizing your feelings is the wrong thing to do

Its a balancing act. You have to show interest, but can't let them know how attracted you are.

I took a girl out this weekend. I've known her for years, we both got out of relationships a few months ago, started talking.. anyway date #3 I finally close the kiss, which turns into a make out session for the rest of my night.

We took a break from dancing and I said something along the lines of "I've been wanting to do that (kiss her) for a couple years now"

No foul right? WRONG. Her attitude went from "hey I think this guy likes me" to "yeah, he's wrapped around my finger"

Regardless, my night went well.

 

[JohnChops]

Its a balancing act. You have to show interest, but can't let them know how attracted you are.

I took a girl out this weekend. I've known her for years, we both got out of relationships a few months ago, started talking.. anyway date #3 I finally close the kiss, which turns into a make out session for the rest of my night.

We took a break from dancing and I said something along the lines of "I've been wanting to do that (kiss her) for a couple years now"

No foul right? WRONG. Her attitude went from "hey I think this guy likes me" to "yeah, he's wrapped around my finger"

Regardless, my night went well.

So your saying that because you told her that she knew she had you in her control? therfore doing that killed a lot of her attraction towards you ... correct? Wouldve been better to keep her wondering if you like her or not because then she works to keep you attracted to her! I verbalized my feelings to this girl i hooked up with lol it went south after that and now i never do it.