Proof of confident persistence

[zinc4]

Guys...i met this smoking hot 8.5 on the street who was walking with her friend the other week.....i chatted up the friend first and then number closed the HB 8.5.

So i called her 2 days later and she said she has a very busy schedule and that she would not be able to meet me....i said ok, no worries and let her go. I then tried calling her 3 days after that only to be completely ignored.

Now this is when i decided i was going to conduct an experiment based on a thread here on sosuave about a month or 2 ago that i read where i guy lost a girl he was going after to another guy was regularly sending her lovey dovey text messages but backed with confidence...

So i currently have several plates rotating in the addition of my on and off again GF who recently told me i could see other people because i will leave this country forever in about 2 months...so i wasn't emotionally invested in this HB8.5....though i admit, she is the type of woman i would like to eventually settle down with one day...

So for my experiment, i sent her a text message every other morning or so saying good morning beautiful! of course these messages were completely ignored at first....

And in the evening i would send messages like hey, i hope my future wife had a good day sleep well princess.....

I would send one in the morning and one in the evening, never asking her a question...just sending statements...usually 2 a day everyother day or sometimes even every day..

She completely ignored my first 20 or so texts...no response or nothing...nada.

The finally out of the blue about 3 weeks after me sending unanswered trext messages i get a message from her in the morning saying good morning handsome...

I replied and got no response from her until 3 days later she called me and wanted to chat...she still said she was busy but could meet 2 weeks later...i said ok....

She then started calling me often to talk...i would always tell her some lovey dovey type stuff but kept the convos very short and was never clingy acting...just very persistent in my undying lust for her lol...

So two weeks later we met just for coffee and we held hands and stuff like that but she only had an hour to hang out...i never got a chance to kiss her on that first date...

However, we then met 2 days later and i took her to a park and made out with her for a few hours...she told me she wanted a relationship and that she was skeptical of me at first because i looked like a player...but she had developed feelings for me...and she was a good girl who was crazy about her church here and didn't like to party at all..

We were set to hang out again...but she recently found out i was banging one of her friends the entire time i was talking to her and she said she could never trust me because many of her exes were playboys and always cheated on her....i had no idea one of my plates was one of her good friends...the Phillipino community here is very small...it sucks, because i lost her and her good friend who also wanted a relationship with me......but i have new plates on rotation so it's not the end of the world...

But the point is, my experiment was very successful....normally, i would always next her after the first ignored call..much less numerous ignored texts...

But i think the key to this is remaining emotionally detached when you do it....i kind of viewed it like i was playing a character. It was actually really fun telling a girl who was ignoring me how much I lusted for her and how much i wanted her...felt very liberating in a strange sort of way...

 

[European-DJ]

That is just weird, seriously dude, sending 20 messages without an answer - okay, you are leaving the contry, so I guess it was alright, but imaging spinning 5 plates in that way.. I would consider it making a fool out of myself, but what do I know.

 

[zinc4]

Of course it seems weird that was the point of the experiment....however, it was fruitful because she outright asked me for a relationship after that....and was becoming clingy acting toward me....before her friend showed pics of me and her a few days .ago and told her we were banging on a regular basis..

When you next a chick you do it either out of pride or because you consider it a waste of time......but if the chick is damne near perfect looking and the result is her asking you for a relationship....then there really is something to be said about persistence....I always spin plates on a one strike next rule, but for the solid 8s and above, I just may change this rule, the trick is to remain emotionally unattached and talk to them you are already bedding them and just make statements backed with the confidence that she is already yours.

 

[YAboi]

excellent stuff

 

[dosquito]

YES man, this is a great case study. It shows how gaming can be very culturally oriented. Very interesting stuff here. Lots of people take indifference too far into the territory of denying yourself what you truly want. THERE'S A FINE LINE HERE BETWEEN CREEPINESS AND GOING AFTER WHAT YOU WANT. What OP did here is some crazy **** because he went far over the cliff of creepiness by almost anyone's standards...so how did it work?

Social proof. Social proof always.

The girl ALREADY KNEW OR SENSED that OP is a sexually successful guy, a DJ. Therefore nothing he could say or do would be creepy, because he was slaying other ***** on the side and she already knew it. That makes the attention that OP gives to HB endearing and valuable instead of desperate and creepy.


In fact, the very fact that OP was suave enough to smoothly approach an 8.5 on the street made her already realize that he might be a player, which scared her. She is scared BECAUSE attraction already exists. If she were not attracted she would not be afraid of being hurt by a player.

OP then allayed these concerns, although in my opinion it's bordering on ridiculous that OP kept up sending 20 texts to this girl. But the point is, OP addressed the emotional concerns specific to the situatoin at hand.

Social proof.

I have actually sort've done this before, come to think of it, to a much lesser degree. I'll definitely be keeping an eye out for good opportunities, actually I sort've have one right now. I think next time I see her I'm gonna say "How's my darling _____ doing?" with a big grin. See, rather than avoid the issue of emotional intimacy, it gets the girl's mind way more engaged to tempt them with the idea like you'er joking.


Edit: maybe social proof is the wrong term here. What I mean tos ay is that OP has demonstrated high value in the sexual marketplace

 

[Uncharted]

I see the point you are making. At least it doesn't look like you spent a lot of time on her, but no F-close. For a girl like that, I would tend toward the hot-cold method where you are kind of back and forth versus "professing your lust for her".